What does it mean when a guy asks you questions about your husband?

[IceCreamQueen15]

This guy at work always asks my questions about myself, life and husband whenever it’s just the 2 of us and we’re having a conversation. Most of the time I used to think nothing of it, I took it as we were just having a conversation. However, some of the questions (while not inappropriate or make me uncomfortable) made me curious why he asked and where he’s going with these conversations. If I ask him why he asked, then he’ll just say he was curious. He’ll ask things like : ‘how old is my husband?’ Why do I like white guys ( I’m black my husband is white and the guy who is asking is Pakistani but born in America )?’ Why don’t we have kids?’ and many more questions of that nature. Maybe is just curious and trying to make conversation, so I don’t want to make a big deal out of it. I’m just curious why, from a guy’s point of view. Am I over analyzing this too much?

[strateguy632]

he wanted to know if you are available.

many questions might be too involved. tell him to bug off.

[IceCreamQueen15]

I felt that’s what he was doing, but I didn’t want to assume or a make a big deal out of nothing.

[Mrtcn01]

It is not normal.. I mean questions seems innocent but in some culture these questions are very personal questions. if you dont plan to have children some times it is a message to outside we are not sure about our future so we dont want to get more responsibility. Do you like only white man means i m not black but if you saperate or when you are desprate do i have a chance with you because i m not white.. yes i said bad things but i dont like this kind of questions my friend.

[BonzoInBitburg]

It's just normal work conversation.