Do you look down on single mother's?

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theungirl · Accepted Answer

not "look down on" them but more wondering how they got into that situation. I feel bad for single mothers honestly, they have to raise a kid, usually by themselves, while working and taking care of the house. Child support doesn't really help, because it's barely enough to raise a kid, it comes for the baby daddy and not the government, and only causes unnecessary drama for everyone involved.

I also feel bad for the child because they will usual develop abandonment issues, grow up to feel like a burden, have to grow up faster than children do.

supercutebutt · Accepted Answer

Only the single moms who use apostrophes in plural situations. It shows that instead of focusing on school as children, they spent all their time engaging in underage coitus. :(

ohsheeT · Accepted Answer

. Not at all if you think about it at least for me..
With her having a child shows me how mature she is it shows me how committed she is it shows me how determine she is because she has to fight for everything to take care of that child.

Single parent mothers are a beautiful thing. And you can read a lot from who they truly are when they do have a child.

BCRanger10 · Accepted Answer

I don't. If anything, I feel compassion for them. I don't know why they're single mothers to begin with. We can split hairs in all sorts of ways. It could be because of divorce/break-up, abandonment, or death. It could also be because she was raped or had a one-night stand or fling of some sort. I don't know.

LiamJHayden · Answer

For simply being a single mother, no. Maybe she was widowed. Maybe the guy turned into a douche. Maybe she adopted the child of a deceased sibling or friend. There are those I would not consider dating like the stereotypical "never married with four baby daddies" type, but I never assume anything just from the term itself.

Paul09 · Answer

Not really. But I do laugh. "Till death due us part" 😂 This is why religions\marriage is bogus. Or why you shouldn't have kids so early. Then you end up being bored of eachother. It sucks for them after, have a hard time finding another person. Not many people want other peoples baggage.

b_lova · Answer

Having been raised by a single mom who put herself through school and sacrificed for us to have a better life. I could never look down on a single mom just because she is single. Life happens and relationships don't always work out.

Anonymous · Answer

If they are self-sufficient with or without child support, I do not look down on them.

If they were they poor and chose to have unprocted sex and/or have multiple children, especially mutliple children with mutliple baby daddies, I tend to look down on them for their poor life decisions that bought children into their world.

genericname85 · Answer

i don't "look down" on them. but it is evident that they fucked up. it's ok to fuck up. people fuck up. but people who live with the consequence of their fuck up have it harder to hide their mistakes than people who don't xD

Krealot · Answer

My mom raised me and my two older sisters, basicly alone. No I do not. And any who does should, well things that can't be said here.

OlderAndWiser · Answer

I look at them as people who have probably made some serious mistakes in their past. . . just like me.

IceCreamSandwich · Answer

I don't. I've known several single mothers, and they seem just as good of people as anyone else. Why should I look down on them?

Nikki1989 · Answer

No I don't. There are millions of reasons why someone might end up as a single parent.

FatNeville · Answer

Only if they are very short.  J/k, no, I don't.

onedarkcloud · Answer

Just because the mother is single doesn't mean a thing. It is her actions as a mother that are to be considered weather she is a good or bad, Being single has no bearing on liooking down on that person.

Kelley1 · Answer

Generally I have a very low opinion of single mothers.

bobalife · Answer

I admire single parents for their strength and hardwork for caring after their kid (s)

HighValue · Answer

It often shows that she makes poor life decisions and has low intelligence.

hellothere90 · Answer

If she's a widow meaning her husband died then no I don't. If she's a single mom who has kids with multiple different men, then yes I do.

GoodGuyBreakingBad · Answer

I would date a Single Mother with a Child (s)

laly520 · Answer

I dont most of em struggle to raise their kids

DrPepper12 · Answer

Those women are HEROES that deserve statues not vitriol.

Anonymous · Answer

It depends whether she owns her predicament or not. Anyone can make a mistake. But a person of character owns that mistake and learns from it, does not repeat it.

nawtee_me · Answer

I take my hat off to them for being so strong and doing what is right. To you single parents…. (I am a single father)

Anonymous · Answer

No. But I was looked down in AS a single mom. People are weird about it. Not sure why.

SunnyRS · Answer

No I don't cause there is no reason to look down on them.

Anonymous · Answer

The woman I'm falling in love with is a single mother. But she said she likes someone else and I been dealing with heartbreak now

Summeroflove · Answer

Depends on their situation really

normalice · Answer

When they are on their knees

tzdc21 · Answer

Depends on the situation

Wise4myage · Answer

No, I think that is stupid.

Anonymous · Answer

single mother's what?

jahaims · Answer

Yeah, unless they are widowed.

Kingofkings1992 · Answer

Don’t, I try not to be judgmental

The_Sexpert · Answer

Nope

Anonymous · Answer

No why? I have dated a few

Anonymous · Answer

Single mothers are a cancer.

Anonymous · Answer

Secretly? yes! Openly? No!!

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