Would you look down on a single mother who has 3 kids and is only 25 years old herself?

[Anonymous]

I read on a forum about a 25 year old female who has 3 kids which she is raising herself as a single mother

She’s also 25 years old

Am I the only one that finds that gross 😂

Yes

No

Updates

2 mo

Also a lot of mothers commented and said they would never want their daughters to end up in a situation like that

[Summeroflove]

It all really depends on her situation. If she’s kusr a whore sleeping around. Yeah gross. It’s the same thing when men are 25 and paying child support to tons of women (or refuses to pay). But it’s better then abortion. At least she’s responsible enough to be a mom. Not a coward who kills her kids.


All in all. Could someone have married someone who cheated or became abusive? Yeah. That’s a different story. Could someone have been raped and became a single mom? Yeah. Could someone have made bad choices in life. But they regretted it came to Jesus and repented and aren’t like that anymore? Yes.


Then are there just gross people? Yeah.

[DJB72]

I have a friend who was a single mother of three aged 24 when her husband was killed on active duty. He was 25.

They'd been married five years and her second pregnancy was twins.

I'd say the circumstances of how someone is in that situation make all the difference. Three kids by three guys and not with any of them and I'd probably want to help her work out her issues.

[Dinklex3]

Nah, I don’t make it my job to judge and look down on others.

I think my sister had 3 by the time she was 25 by this same idiot who still doesn’t have a job 7 years later 💁‍♀️. She’s married now though to a woman the whole family hates, but she’s happy.

Shit happens and people don’t have to chose the same life I did to have my respect. I have 3 adorable nieces and nephews.

[Anonymous]

honestly, sorry to say, yes i would. like what is she doing? bad choices. too young, not stable, probably not even a good career, hardly any money, setting her kids up for failure.

[bobalife]

Nope, she’s a strong woman who’s able to raised three kids on her own. Single parents deserve more praise for being great parents on their own, still work, go school, and do more.

[KrakenAttackin]

@bobalife Wrong. She is a example of bad judgement.

[bobalife]

You can judge, but that’s your perception. Good Single dads and moms, shet happens in marriages/relationships, and they still try their best to raise their kids the best way they could to have a good upbringing.

[KrakenAttackin]

@bobalife. No. Women think that what they "want" is what's best for the kids and marriage. Single mothers are an absolute cancer.

[bobalife]

So people should be in unhappy and unhealthy relationship/marriage where it can influence their kids mental health and how they’re raised, esp “single mothers” when this can be for both men and women? I don’t think we should judge or assumed upon other people life when they all have their own stories.

[KrakenAttackin]

@bobalife. Women consistently make bad decisions about who they let ejaculate into them. This is why women need the help of fathers and older brothers to vet men. Women left to their own make horrible decisions.

[bobalife]

😂 well damn, men make bad decisions too. But no one deserve this poor slash. And nuh, we choose who we want and need. We don’t need to be with men who isn’t compatible nor know how to respect us.

[bobalife]

And fyi men sleep around a lot. So, this is double standards.

[KrakenAttackin]

@bobalife. Women sleep around far more than men. Women let a random Chad Thundercock raw dog them in the bathroom stall at a club than try to play the victim as single mothers.

[jahaims]

Get praise for making poor choices.

[DextroShade]

Single mothers raise kids poorly, they are worse off by every measurable metric.

[exitseven]

If she was on welfare I would. I can understand getting accidently pregnant as a kid but having two more after that with no way to support them I do not approve.

[DextroShade]

Baby mommas are trash but I will give widows and only widows a pass assuming the husband didn't die from a drug overdose or some gangsta shit. If you don't marry before you carry you are fucking stupid.

[Booklover_90]

You posted this like this is uncommon. Young women with multiple children have always been around. Anyway, I try not to judge anyone. Who knows? The young woman in question might be trying to better herself.

[DextroShade]

In the past they were usually widows because their husband died in the war, not like the dumb whores we have out here today.

[Booklover_90]

Again, I try not to pass judgment, especially if they’re trying to improve their lives.

[JacobJordan]

Holy hell why is she not with the man who is the father?

[Berweic]

People with no character are condescending. In this case, I couldn't see anything that could be despised.

[sheikalana]

I'm more curious to know how she ended up in that situation than grossed out.

[LiamJHayden]

Need to know the specifics. Three baby daddies? Same dad and she is widowed?

[Asker]

No he left her

[Asker]

I’m not sure if the same dad is for all the kids but all I know is that she was 25 when she had her 3rd child

[nawtee_me]

Okay I said no before finishing the question. I don’t find it weird at all. Not ideal but not weird either.

[Pohjolan]

Depends on how well she is juggling that situation.

[Wiredone]

I don't judge anyone. Everyone has their own stories

[Peridot25]

I think we should look down upon ALL single parents. That’s including men.

[DextroShade]

Single fathers do a much better job at raising kids than single mothers. For him to even get custody the mother has to be dead or show up to the custody hearing on drugs.

[Peridot25]

I still wouldn’t date a single dad though.

[DextroShade]

I don't blame you.

[Anonymous]

Look down on? I don't look down on anyone. We're all God's children. But would I judge her situation? Absolutely.

[RebelinSteel]

No I would not look down on here.

[Asker]

Is ur daughter was a single mom of 3 kids by 25, would u be ok with it

[RebelinSteel]

I’ve not got a daughter but spot of English for you.

There is a difference between not looking down on something and not being okay with it.
It’s your life, just try not to judge others or make assumptions of others based on your very poor view of others.

[riverrat3]

We should not look down on anyone

[IslaTheWitch]

I wouldn't

[jahaims]

Yeah

[Anonymous]

Yes.

[Anonymous]

So bad tbh