It happened to me more than once now that I’m going out with a guy and he treats me poorly and takes me for granted so i decide to let go after holding on to it, but then a few months later they try to get back into my life?
If you experienced something like this maybe as a guy can you get me the behind the scenes of whats happening there? I find it so anigmatic haha
is it the lonliness? Or you actually changed your mind about that girl
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they dont always come back.
also you assume they are taking you for granted, likely might not be the case.
every person is different. this question is too broad to just ask a blanket opinion.
better to ask the man you are literally referring to in your post this question
But it is kinda the case there's no much ways to look at it. I dont make a big deal out of basiclly anything. He forgets my birthday but i won't even mention it.. he won't ever take me out but instead he will ask me to join his plans with his friends and do drugs with them. But i want him to stay so i try to mention it but when nothing changes i just leave it. Until i can't anymore and i leave. And than they come back. I say they not because all guys are like this just the ones i have been with haha so i was just wandering how does it look from the other side and if letting them back in will be different this time.
not everyone celebrates birthdays
especially men
and if you dont remind him, then you didn't care either...
some people see "taking out" a girl as disingenuous and fake, and they might much rather spend time with you alone at home, because to them that is real
if he's asking you to do drugs then he clearly likes you
the fact that he's a drug user makes all the rest of my comments make ev en more sense
drug users are more open minded and the chance of a drug user not caring about birthdays is WAAAAY higher than someone not using drugs
drug users are very individual and often do their own things unrelated to what mainstream people think about
mainstream is indoctrinated into the zeitgeist, for example, birthdays, holidays, days of the week
when should i get up, when should i go to sleep etc etc
and these are all just time things
drug users are much more variant in their ideas than mainstreamers/non drug users
if he's not willing to do what you want, then let him know you leave
if you dont see him change in real time right in front of you
get down on one knee
and apologize, when you tell him how you feel
then just leave him
as long as you say everything nicely and clearly and dont leave anything out
you will feel fine about leaving because you know you didd everything you could.
block him and and dont talk ever ever again if you decide to leave.
-making this a little easier to read-
if you dont see him change in real time right in front of you and get down on one knee
and apologize, when you tell him how you feel,
then just leave him
because the girls welcome them with red carpet.
u r around wrong guys (players)
Guess i ammm