Why does a guy seem more active on social media after I blocked him?

[Anonymous]

We never followed eachother on social media but I still blocked him … I would block and unblock…

At first I didn’t think it mattered because he had no profile pic up and no friends… for a long time… when I unblocked him he has friends now

[DishLady]

If you blocked him and you see he’s more active on social media it means you probably have a fake account and are stalking him — STOP IT.


He’s probably more active because he’s confident you won’t bug him about his social media. Leave the hug alone.

[Asker]

No I don’t have a fake account but I will block him for good.

I don’t talk to him

[DishLady]

Ok. Don’t look at him either, Missy. It’s messing with you.

[Flatmanlewis]

I strongly suspect he has no awareness of whether he is blocked or not. Probably doesn’t even care. Sounds like a perception in your head and it doesn’t reflect anything other than the normal ebb & flow of normal life.

[GuyAnswersGirls123]

Most logical assumption to me is that he was so focused on you that he didn't make nearly as much time for himself until after.

[Asker]

We were never in a relationship. We talked briefly

[GuyAnswersGirls123]

In that case, maybe he just got social in the time period.

[Asker]

I’ll just block him again

He kind of rejected me but we did go out.

[spartan55]

Wow, you sure have a high opinion of yourself. You think any of that has to do with you?

[Asker]

I was just curious

[Asker]

Wishful thinking

Wishing he thought about me

[spartan55]

So you are making things up in your head? You went out once... pretty big deal you are making about... oh nothing. Why are you blocking him?

[Asker]

I don’t want to pop up in his people you may know

[spartan55]

Okay? So what if it does? You are creating needless drama here and not making yourself look real good. Go find something else to distract you. You are giving social media far too much value.

[Asker]

You really don’t think I’m trying

[Asker]

I sext other men, I’ve been trying to eat better and exercise. I lost a few pounds

I work 60 hours a week… trust me. My day is busy

[Asker]

But I just can’t get over it

[spartan55]

I have no idea what you are talking about...

[VV3ZZY123]

Sounds like it's in your head.
You probably feel guilty for blocking him and now your beating yourself up. You probably blocked him for good reason?

[Asker]

I just wanted to stop thinking about him. I didn’t want to pop up in his people you may know..

[VV3ZZY123]

Yea. I block a lot of people. Lol

[ProbablyClueless]

I think it's safe to assume that he's not particularly bothered by the end of your connection with him.

[Anonymous]

How do you know that if you blocked him?

[Asker]

He was on my block list then i unblocked him.

[In_Trance]

how do you know he's active if you blocked him?