My fiance let me know that he will be going to a strip club for his bachelor party. I fully trust him, but how do I cope and not get jealous or dwell?

[jenngear]

[butterly248]

I had a similar suitation a while ago with my boyfriend. Luckily, they cancelled but yes even though there is trust, it sucks. You just to have to chill unfortunately

[jenngear]

Thank you for that, you give great advice 🙏

[northerngal]

Go see some strippers for your Bachelorette party... see how he responds lol Seriously you say you trust him yet you are worried about getting jealous. Bit of a mixed message. Maybe you do not trust him as much as you think?

[KrakenAttackin]

That's bullshit, you should not tolerate that. Too much bad shit happens with booze and titties.

[RHK36]

You cope by being an adult. If you can't trust him then why marry him.

[jenngear]

Respect, didn't want to hear it needed to

[HelpfulWoman]

i mean, i trust my partner. but why the fuck would he feel the need to go to a strip club? it just flies a red flag at this point

[butterly248]

It is for a batchlor party. Sadly it is very common

[HelpfulWoman]

@butterly248 i know what its for. and its less common nowadays than it was. there's no reason to accept it.

[236color]

Go to a male strip club

[jimmy2]

Don't let him then