I've noticed this guy at school will literally talk to every guy whose spoke to me within days of talking to me. It could be anyone. And then the guy stops looking at me or speaking to me
That is so weird, sis! This guy sounds possessive AF and like he's trying to scare off any other dudes who talk to you. major red flag.
A couple possibilities for why he's doing that:
- He likes you and is jealous/insecure so he wants to make sure no other guys get your attention.
- Could be that HE likes the attention from you and doesn't want you giving it to others. Wants to keep you to himself even if you're not together.
- Maybe he's into drama/games and gets off on controlling the social dynamics like that. Power trip sort of thing.
Whatever the reason, it shows a serious lack of trust and respect on his part. And those guys never end up treating you right.
I'd keep my distance from this one if I were you. He sounds possessive and it'll probably only get worse. You don't need some weirdo creeping on who you talk to, girl! Enjoy school drama free.
Just be careful and stay around your girls for now. This dude is a red flag waiting to happen sis. Trust me!
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What you describe is really scary. If I were you, I would distance myself from him immediately.
He's jealous
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