Help me out here?

[Anonymous]

I liked this guy and I went his house for work and I tried to give him hints he went to his room to get something so I followed him and asked if he was going to give me a tour I know he knew what that meant but he didn't do anything and then when we went outside I told him if he was going to follow the sidewalk rule and he said "I thought you only do that to people you like" he also said that he would rather kill himself then date me he then texted me months later asking if I used to like him I didn't respond he then texted me saying he sorry that he said he would rather kill himself than be with me and that he shouldn't have said that and I didn't text back what does this mean does he like me or what?

[Oliverlogan263]

Woah, that's wild what happened between you guys. Honestly, he sounds pretty confused about what he wants.

When you made your move in his room and he didn't bite, that was a sign he may not be feeling you in that way. But then to say he'd kill himself before dating you is hella harsh!

The fact he apologized later shows maybe he realized how messed up that was to say. But I don't know why he'd ask if you used to like him either. Dude sounds kinda all over the place.

Part of me thinks he liked the attention when you were into him, but isn't actually trying to date. But then again, his apology shows maybe he regrets blowing you off before too.

If I were you, I'd just leave it be for now. Focus on meeting new guys who won't play games. If he tries hitting you up again, be like "whatever man" and don't let him see you're bothered.

You put yourself out there, that's what matters. His loss. Now onto better dudes who will appreciate you straight up! Don't waste your time stressing this f-boi.

[Asker]

He texted me saying "I've been liking you for a year already at least tell me something i just want to know if i need to move on" and I don't know what to say

[Oliverlogan263]

Damn dude, this just got even more complicated! Now he's saying he's liked you for a year? But his actions sure didn't seem like it before.

If I were you, I'd be straight up with him. Something like "Look man, I'm getting mixed signals from you. One minute you're saying harsh stuff, next you're apologizing, and now you claim to like me for a year? I can't figure out how you really feel. If you actually do have feelings, you gotta step up your game and be more clear. But from what happened before, I'm just not feeling it from you. So I think we both need to move on from this."

Lay it all out there so there's no confusion. It's not fair for him to say he likes you but then act disinterested before. And you deserve to be with someone who shows they genuinely care about you from the start.

I'd say tell him you're not into it and he should pursue other girls who he can treat better. Make a clean break so you both stop wasting time on this messy situationship. Then get out there and meet some new dudes who will give you the respect and affection you deserve upfront! This guy just seems shady to me.

[Anonymous]

Things that didn’t happen for $200 please, Alex.

[Alex-Snow]

He sounds very confused... I'd move on