What the hell does my ex FB want? He's so confusing still?

[Crimsyjo]

We were FBs about 4 months. For the first two we were really close with him messaging me all day every day and my feelings did get more than they should have. He pulled back. It was quite the rollacoaster. He admits he doesn't express his feelings well and he keeps himself quite private. But we had sex valentines and then he finally opened up to me. Like big time. But I don't know if he was scared of his own vulnerability? But he totally distanced himself after that and then cut me off.

Forward 5 months... and he's back. And I been keeping our chat to sexy and light only. I haven't responded to him as much abd he is asking me what I'm doing if I don't respond in like 10 mins. Now... tonight... after a day texting and sending teasing snaps amd chat, he said he was going home to sleep. I said good. Then said that I was happy to keep flirting with him but if he did wanna talk real we could.

He said "you call fucking your toys flirting?" And i said "well I thought that's all you wanted" and he said "you didn't answer the question" ...

Wow! Grumpy much? What does he want?

Updates

1 y

Oh fuck...
So... I thought he was messaging me in middle of night and I said "I'm awake" and reply was "but he's not"... turns out he has a girlfriend of 5 years. Guess that explains a lot. Hate cheating but feel bad for him now!

[Bklynbadboy12]

I'm gonna be honest with you he was gonna leave you but the sex is good so that's why he came back. I bet he's begging for the sex daily

[Crimsyjo]

Noooo. The biggest problem we had was that he wouldn't meet up with me enough. I was exclusive 5 weeks for him until I was like nope, I can't take waiting any longer! He does work long long hours and say he's tired all the time. But I'd be like... instead of talking and teasing online we could have just drove, met and fucked in half the time!
He would text me from 5am until 11pm EVERY day all day. Hence I really wondered if he like liked me. Cos just fucking I cd understand.
I domt expect to meet up with him. Tho it could happen. I guess maybe he is just bored and lonely?

[Bklynbadboy12]

Wow! That's some strange behavior. He doesn't have any days off? You would think he'd be dying to meet up with you

[Crimsyjo]

Urgh I know. He has weekends off. I don't but I'd still drop everything to meet up late at night. One time we was texting texting and I was thinking fuck him, I'm gonna go fuck someone else. Cos I'd been hinting as getting dressed up. Anyways... I drove to bar and sent him video of me getting out my car in my sexy outfit. I just got in bar when he said "ffs, meet now!! Ten minutes!!" And we did and fucked!

[Crimsyjo]

He kept saying he hated his job and we wd fuck more when he gets a different one. But then he's too lazy to look for another one!

[Bklynbadboy12]

Damn

[Crimsyjo]

Yh. As per my update from last night. He has a girlfriend! Guess that explains why he kept not meeting up as much as I wanted! And acting kinda funny after last two times we fucked... like annoyed that I'd tempted him! Why can't men just be honest! When I got a boyfriend I was totally up front. I had three FBs that I told "I have a boyfriend now. We can just be friends still tho" ...

[Bklynbadboy12]

Damn I'm so sorry and I don't know why he wouldn't be honest with you. But that's his loss just don't let it change you

[Crimsyjo]

I know he was heartbroken over her. I even gave him tips on getting her back! Cos after February we were just friends anyways in my head. So he could have said hey good news, I'm back with her!
Of course... he wouldn't have got the pictures and videos he got from me! Lol

[Bklynbadboy12]

He's a lucky man

[Crimsyjo]

Haha oh we had amazing fun Monday day time... before I knew he was bk with her. He brings out my 😈😈😈 side like no other. And he loves me doing what he demands lol. Oh. "Loved" not loves. Damn I'm gonna miss it.

[TommyMountainFigure]

How can you feel bad for someone who cheated on you? That makes no sense!

[TommyMountainFigure]

If you wanna feel bad for anyone @Crimsyjo, feel bad for his g/f. Poor cow probably didn't know he was cheating on her!

[Crimsyjo]

I know I know. I'm wrestling with this myself cos he is obviously an ass but we have or had such a connection, more than just sexual. I have no idea if he physically cheated on her tho... she said they had on and off relationship. So maybe they were "off" when he slept with me. But he should have been up front and honest with me and I would have backed off. But I know... I do feel massive empathy with her too!

[onedarkcloud]

Well, we know he does not respect you since all he wants is pussy on demand. He most probably has a regular piece of ass and used you when she was unavailable. He just does not sound right.

[Crimsyjo]

Haha actually one of my issues with him was he wdnt have my pussy as regular as I wanted! He wants my company on demand more than actual sex. And yh it's usually other way round!!

[eagle1951]

damn