Why don’t men in the west have a drive to be providers anymore?

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and why do men from other parts of world provide but the western men don’t?

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

There’s a lot of reasons. Most of them I think were because of women. A lot of women these days want equality, equal pay, etc. So now that a lot of men are opening their eyes they’re realizing things. One that she makes just as much as me or more so why should I have to pay for everything. A lot of women are telling men we don’t need you, we can do everything you can do, etc. Also a lot of men are concerned about getting accused of something. That’s why a lot of men don’t hold doors open for women or compliment them because you’re not sure what kind of response you’re going to get. A lot of women in the west are extreme feminist, they don’t act like women. Whereas women in other countries still have that going for them. That’s why you have men flying overseas to find a partner, they’re not returning. A lot of women these days are masculine, something men don’t care for. A lot of women aren’t worth the effort these days. They’re more likely to divorce a man because they’re unhappy. So they put their happiness first. We have have always been the way we are. Women are the ones who are changing. Men just adapted to the times of women changing. You don’t want me to undermine you as a person so I stopped doing a lot of things for women. A lot of single women are raising boys on their own, yes partially a man’s fault at times, not all the time. But boys who grow up being raised by their mom’s tend to be more emotional. Not only that women are saying they want emotional men. Men do a lot of things we don’t want to but we don’t complain about it or say things about it. Maybe that’s why women think it’s easier being a man cause we don’t complain. But now when you get a man who is emotional, who is “complaining” about legitimate things, women don’t like it.

Drewtate · Accepted Answer

It's not that they don't. But women want to make pay equal to men but also won't settle for a man that makes less than them. Then there's the fact that women these days will walk away from a marraige or relationship even if there is kids involved for another guy and the government financially rewards them. The amount of guys I know that were married, were good husbands and providers, good fathers but one day their wives decided that the guy from their work was a better prospect and now those husbands find themselves alone in a motel room at night while their wives have moved some douchebag into their homes to be a would-be father to their kids, this new guy is sitting in their chair, sleeping in their bed, watching sports on their tv, drinking their beer and ploughing their wives while the husbands have to get up for work every morning to pay alimony and child support.

The media also has a role to play. How many movies and tv shows do we see the bumbling idiot father who's too concerned with his job rather than spending time with his wife and kids and he has to redeem himself and make it up to his wife and kids. Rather than show the father as selfless they show the father selfish.

RingOfFire · Answer

Very simple. The woke movement from the American Democrat and European left has created intentional confusion about male and female roles in a family and society in an attempt to create chaos and overturn the system so they can install their Marxist dictatorship.

They created an environment where people who want to follow their natural roles are humiliated and harassed so people become afraid to even talk about reality and have to substitute the forced fantasy narrative about how women can be men and men can be women and there is no difference between them.

All of this gender fantasy crap is designed to destabilize the society, feminize and emasculate men so that they cannot fulfill their natural provide and protection roles and cause America to have a weak military so it can't defend itself.

And women are humiliated and bullied into thinking that their natural role of bearing children and nurturing the family is somehow demeaning.

It's all about replacing reality with delusional and harmful fantasy to destabilize the society and culture coming from the Marxist left (Democrats in America). And in America and Europe... THEY ARE SUCCEEDING.

Lionman95 · Answer

I would say because many women earn at least as much as guys if not more. The possibility that a guy can provide is therefore reduced by economy. Guys are often not the breadwinner.
The other reason is because masculinity is shifting and adjusting to a culture that tries to put women and people that identify as some sort of minority in the spotlight. As society and women progress guys do too. If you want a guy in line with emotions you get a guy that's wondering what's his benefit from paying all the time while she makes at least the same amount and never pays.

hahahmm · Answer

Why would a man provide for someone who is disrespectful and disloyal? Traditional women knew how to be loyal, respectful and part of a team. And the guy was respectful and loyal to her. Now a bunch of geniuses tinkered with society and removed/weakened many of the parts that made it work for eons. You are witnessing the collapse of western society.

BetaBucks · Answer

Failing sexual dimorphism, where males are less masculine and females are less feminine. It will probably bounce back though. Once the femboys of the West get conquered by masculine foreigners and our women greet the invaders, on their knees, and immediately become feminine and submissive to them. Basic history. Happens repeatedly.

RavVid · Answer

Frankly western women aren't offering any value other than sex anymore so we have dropped providing down to going dutch.

In contrast prostitutes only offer sex and don't expect men to provide any more than the service fee.

Women from other parts of the world still seem to offer value so men from other parts of the world provide.

It might be that western men's perception of western women is off but we have to take note of what is yelled at us.

genericname85 · Answer

therre's 2 separate reasons.
1: because the women in the west aren't looking for providers anymore cause they are being told to be "independend strong women". and
2: because the current economy invalidates the single breadwinner model for everyone who isn't in the top 25% of earners anyway.

dudegreat91 · Answer

Probably because western guys believe that women fuck the attractive "alpha" guys and then get into marriage with "beta" provider guys to raise children. They also believe women keep on looking for these "alpha" guys even after their marriage for short term affairs.

LiamJHayden · Answer

1. Costs: the cost of living in many places is so severe that it requires two incomes to support a couple, let alone a family.

2. No-fault divorce laws make the prospect of marriage far more daunting than when the cheater actually got little to nothing after infidelity.

3. A lack of traditional women. Do not forget that part of it.

sirderpsalot123 · Answer

I love a woman who is independent. Someone who can adult on her own and still seeks me out as a partner is someone who wants me in her life.

That being said, when I feel like she's a real partner (someone who is working with me instead of watching me work) makes me want to provide for her and doesn't feel like an obligation simply because we are in a relationship and I have a penis.

strateguy632 · Answer

I am men in the west have a job showed a drive to be provider. So your question is false. Probably part of the woke trend "make America look bad" misused a question for false propaganda.

Staximus · Answer

Because of high divorce rates. Why buy a house so your wife can fuck the neighbor while you're at work? Then the court orders you to give her the house or sell it to settle the divorce. How about the hell with all that shit.

Anonymous · Answer

Because women in other parts of the world are worthy of men who are good providers, and most women here in the US are not.

There needs to be a good reason for a man to want to be a provider. Most young men growing up in the US today see what women here have become, and they see what marriage has become. And it's no longer something worth aspiring to.

MrOracle · Answer

It's because western women have no drive to be WIVES anymore. And, surprise surprise, you can't have a provider husband if you aren't a wife.

Anonymous · Answer

This is comical. You women complain out of one side of your mouths that men earn more money that you do, and out of the other side you whine about men not being providers. So which is it? Or are you just looking to whine about something? Don't bother answering because we already know the real answer.

ImalwaysrightOK · Answer

Because women don't offer anything that they used to. Things men value like youth, fertility, innocence and being nurturing have been destroyed in modern women.

NamerOfStars · Answer

Because the social contract has been renegotiated to give them nothing, while taking more than ever. Anyone in their right mind would opt out.

ProbablyClueless · Answer

I think in a lot of cases, that happens because the guys don't feel like women appreciate the effort at all.

Anonymous · Answer

Okay so you referring to tradition, because truthfully speaking many women dont want to be traditional wives to men no longer in the west its not hard to figure it out, many women want a traditional man but dont want to be a traditional women and vice versa too this is the case with some men too.

BonzoInBitburg · Answer

Western women want to be strong and independent so they don't need a man to provide anymore

noohair · Answer

Men used to have to make a commitment to a woman for sex. That was love and marriage. Women wanted freedom and equality. This is what freedom and equality looks like.

jahaims · Answer

A lot of people want a traditional partner without being one themselves. If you only take without giving people catch on.

Anonymous · Answer

Because that isn't seen as enough unless you make 250k a year I'll take being alone and not even making enough to pay taxes over that and I know my clients would agree

Juxtapose · Answer

Because I want an equal, not a leech. We're in this together or not at all.

Anonymous · Answer

For much the same reason women don't have the drive to be traditional, caregivers, and nurturerers anymore.

Anonymous · Answer

Sure we do. But it's reserved for good women only.

NathanDavis · Answer

provide what... exactly?

DrPepper12 · Answer

There is a simp epidemic. Agreed.

smurfwrangler · Answer

because women provide nothing they used to

shortster · Answer

I want to be one.🤷

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