I started a new job where the guys at work often come up to me and compliment me. One of them has been asking me out for a while in a funny and playful way he always compliments me and had no issues always telling me how perfect I am etc… eventually I agreed to go out with him after work one night with our work friends and I ended up kissing him it was a great kiss, we went back to his place but we didn’t have sex because I didn’t know I was going out that night I wasn’t necessarily “prepared” I also have never had a one night stand I’ve only ever had sex with my boyfriends (2). He was so sweet he was telling me how he’d been wanting ti do this and all this stuff. He took me out to breakfast the next day and then indicated he wanted to spend the rest of the day alone. I went home he never asked if I got home safe which personally bothered me but I don’t know if I’m being extra. I see him at work he still compliments me but I’ve learned apparently he’s a big fuvkboy. We hung out one more time but it was a pretty crazy crowd and I went home shortly after. How do I make him want to hang out with me. What should I do and how should I act. I want him to like me
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Don’t bother. He’s a fuckboy. He’s just gonna have sex with you and then lose interest in you.
We don't know he's a fuckboy... Tf is that?
Ask him out.
Stop listening to gossip, you wouldn't like someone doing that to you.
I’ve known him for a while now and he is a fyck boy
Based on what?
He had sex with over 70 people
If you already decided who he is then why did you even post this?
According to who?
I mean it doesbt mean I’m not interested just means I’m not sure how to go about it without looking desperate or degrading myself
Desoerate or degrading yourself how? That makes no sense. He probably thinks you aren't into him.
Well we had a great night I said thanks so much he basically told me to leave cuz he wanted ti spend the day alone he never asked if I got home safe or never reached out over text after that I just saw him at work the next time we were scheduled together
Why, bring up the fuckboy thing if it doesn't matter to you? You girls love having it both ways. You don't even know, if it's true.
I brought it up because that would mean he would just see me as a fuck. I feel like ur trying to find something to be mad at 🤣
Did you reach out to him?
Then you dipped early the second time you hung out.
He didn't see if you got home safe? You could have let him know you made it home safe too. You are expecting him to do everything while you do.. Hmmm... Nothing.
I left early cuz his friends were trying to shove coke up my nose and I felt super uncomfortable
I mean, did you really want to hang out with him ALL DAY after you whacked up? A little bit much don't you think?
Did you tell him about that (the coke)?
That’s a different story I didn’t really judge him for that but by telling me to leave I didn’t want to be too much by texting him first
Yes he was there he also mentioned he was uncomfortable with me staying near that crowd
Okay... so instead of just avoiding them you left?
Well y’a it was just me him and them what was I supposed to do hang out in a corner
So, he tells you he's, uncomfortable with you being around you, but he still hangs out with them?
He also told me he wanted me to go he didn’t want me around them he stayed he could’ve also left with me not saying he had to but his actions don’t show he’s really into me
No, I'm not trying to do anything. Three to go, they have run. You said you're worried about him using you for a f***. But then you turn around and say it doesn't mean you aren't interested. Which is it?
Did you ask him if he does coke?