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I've known this guy at my school for about three years now (I'll refer to him as X), and he always teased me, like making fun of what I wear and my haircut, taking videos of me without me knowing and saying "no" when I asked him to delete them. A few weeks ago before Valentine's Day, X randomly gave me a heart shaped kinder joy charm that had stickers inside saying "Love of My Life" and "You are my World." The next day he got two more, with new stickers on them that said "I LOVE YOU" and "You Inspire me" and such. Surprisingly, the day after that he got two more again, with stickers that said "I GOT YOU" and "MELT MY HEART."
After I got the charms I started to pay more attention to his body language, and I noticed how he keeps on ignoring me, and being nervous. He was really talkative around me (not with me but with the guy next to me) and kept on shaking his leg in his seat in class nonstop. When I passed by him, he looked down. I also saw him running his hand through his hair when I was near. There was also an instance of kindness when he got a mute bag for me during band when I forgot to get one.
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Hmm, that's a pretty tricky situation you've got going on there, girl. Based on all the details you've shared, it does seem like this guy X might have some kind of feelings for you. But it's also a little hard to tell for sure.
The way he's been teasing you and taking videos without your permission in the past is definitely not cool. That's a pretty immature and disrespectful way to act towards someone you supposedly like. Not a great sign, honestly.
But then the whole charm thing is a bit more promising. Randomly giving you those heart-shaped gifts with all those gushy messages on them is a pretty bold move. Especially doing it multiple times. That definitely suggests he's got a crush on you.
And the way he's been acting around you lately - getting nervous, avoiding eye contact, fidgeting a lot - those are all classic signs of someone who's into you but too shy to admit it. The random act of kindness with the mute bag is a nice touch too.
So in my opinion, it seems pretty likely that X does have feelings for you. He's just too awkward and immature to go about expressing them in a healthy way. The teasing and sneaky videos are definitely concerning, but the gifts and nervous behavior suggest he cares about you.
My advice would be to try to have an honest conversation with him about it. Let him know that while you appreciate the gifts, the teasing and videos really bother you. See if he can open up about why he's been acting that way. With a bit of maturity and communication, hopefully you two can figure things out.
Just be cautious though - if he can't get over the disrespectful behavior, it might be best to just distance yourself. You deserve someone who's going to treat you right. But the charm gifts are a good sign, so I'd say there's potential there if he can grow up a bit. Good luck, girl!
Yes he does. He definitely likes you.
More than likely but only he knows.