Do you think straight men who claim they are 100% happy without female interaction, are actually as happy as they say they are?

[Anonymous]

[Telekinetic-Potato]

After a breakup I realised I was addicted to sex, I told myself I'm gonna go a year without flirting or fucking or anything.

Got my life back together. Literally changed my entire life. Changed how I date for the better, fixed my money because I wasn't spending it on manipulative women, I was getting more attention from women because they see your disinterest in them as invalidating.

My standards are so much higher and my life is so much better. I pretty much get laid whenever I want specifically because I'm not trying to do it all the time anymore. So I really don't feel it if I go a month or two dry because I'm focusing on other shit.

[EzraIsShy76028]

In some cases yeah, other cases no.

Some straight men just genuinely don't care about romance or sex. They'd rather just masturbate and/or watch porn to relieve their sexual urges. And they might not want the drama or commitment that comes with a relationship.

Other straight men though are just simply using it as a cope. Since they have no success with women they're just sort of like "whatever women are not all that special anyway" but are secretly desperate for affection from women. A lot of these men end up turning into incels.

[FreyaRed]

Maybe.
As a girls and can say interactions with other females is often complicated and demanding. Even as friend other women demand a lot while offer not really much.
Nothing is for free and this is rule is valid in relationships either.

[Apulu_backagain]

I think it's no different than any single person of any sexuality or gender.

Some prefer to stay alone and some prefer relationships. I don't see why any person needs anyone else to live a fulfilling life.

[MrOracle]

Here's the difference:

Most men never expected to be happy all the time - they never had any expectation that happiness would rule their future lives. (Most) men understand that much in life is hard work, difficulty, and strife. Thus, we tend to be grounded and have realistic expectations (of course, there are a few exceptions, as always).

Most women EXPECT to be happy - they feel ENTITLED to happiness - whether single or alone, and they ESPECIALLY expect to be happy virtually all the time if they're in a relationship, and if somehow they aren't, then it MUST be the men's fault, because it couldn't POSSIBLY be that she had unrealistic expectations, right? I mean, all her friends TELL HER that it's the man's fault, so it must be.

Of COURSE most men would prefer to be in a relationship with a woman, IF those women had realistic expectations of what that would look like - but most women today don't. Most women today are masculine, "independent"/"I don't need no man", show little to no appreciation or respect to their man, and are usually looking for a top 1% man (even though almost none of these women are top 1% women) so she can extract money and lifestyle from him.

So, while a man would prefer to be with a woman in an ideal world, in TODAY's reality, most women are not worth being in a relationship with. They're too demanding, too entitled, too condescending, too masculine, and show zero respect. And that means that, when we're talking about "MODERN" Feminist women (most women today), men ARE happier alone. If women today were much more traditional in morals and values, then far more men would be in a relationship with them, or want to be, but that's not how it is, so a huge number of men have simply checked out. They actively avoid women, and mostly just work, go home, do their hobbies, and relax in their own peace and quiet. That's not as good as an ideal world with a feminine, traditional woman, sure, but it's FAR better than being with a modern, masculine, feminist woman, by a long ways.

[Chazmatazz269]

You know why Tibetan monks live longer than most other men?
They don’t have to put up with women’s sh*t. 🤣🤣🤣
Obviously that’s not going to hold true for all men. A lot of men choose celibacy because they have had a string of terrible experiences with women. That yearning doesn’t just go away with celibacy. Neither does the damage caused by terrible women. Many guys remain in denial about that. The part that women are in denial about? They don’t go away with a woman in your life either. No matter how “good” she thinks she is.
Men who choose celibacy might not be as happy as they claim, let alone as happy as they want to be. But they’re on the right path because they have proven to themselves that women are not the solution that we’ve been taught they are.

[Asker]

I consider it like alcoholism. Those that recover, only recover because they find something else to take its place like exercise or some new hobby, but the urge is always there. For those monks, they commit because the divine is there for them but what happens if they stop believing?

[msc545]

Celibacy is not as happy a state as it might seem to be, but all things being equal, it is a lot happier than being around a toxic woman who constantly makes you ill.

[Chazmatazz269]

I have experience with recovery too, and replacing one vice with another is definitely not the key. The main keys are acceptance, forgiveness and purpose. Twelve step programs have an intrinsic spiritual aspect.
The monks benefit from practicing all of those things without necessarily having to bottom out with addiction first.

[DMurff]

Haha made me laugh out loud!!

[McLlovin]

Lol honestly all joking aside I think its the food. In the west we eat so much processed junk food lol

[Purpleronnie]

I would doubt there are many men who completely abstain from ‘ANY’ interaction with women but when there are men choosing to be un-attached or never be in a romantic relationship with a woman and claiming general happiness then yes I have no issue whatsoever believing that they are generally happy. I would also share the belief for women choosing the same.


I myself feel that I would be happy without being in a romantic relationship with a woman but I still would much rather have a woman to share my life with.

[Anonymous]

Yes of course. You ever see men just laughing, entertaining theirselves? I know I do it all the time. I’ve seen a lot of men do the same. I think they’re truly happy. A majority of men can do pretty much the same things women can. Cook, clean, wash clothes, etc. I would actually say women are dirtier than men when it comes to things like their cars, the restrooms. I know cause my girl tells me how disgusting women are when it comes to the restroom. If he’s happy he’s not going to be bragging about it the way a lot of women do. Like buying myself my own flowers, or dating myself or stupid bs like that that women say.

[Asker]

I do think there is a happy set out there, but they definitely do their own thing and don't yap on about it to everyone every single second. The question isn't about whether men can do the same things as women. That doesn't have anything to do with happiness. It's your state of mind when you are removed from women altogether, or men. As far as your bathroom point...I lived in a dorm years back with communal bathrooms. Floor above us all male, our floor, all female. There was a call to the front desk while I was signing in one evening that someone had smeared feces all over the men's bathroom. Meanwhile in our bathroom, all the girls on our floor brought in our own cute shower curtains, every stall had bathroom spray, we installed a scent mister, the mirrors were decorated. Those guys were alway sneaking down to use our restrooms, so I STRONGLY disagree that women have grosser mens bathrooms, lol.

[Opinion Owner]

Yes of course men can be happy. A lot of us are happy single. Who knows about the bathrooms. I just know from my girl as well as numerous other women who I talk to, which is a lot. I work in a female dominated field, nursing. But yes I think a lot of men can be happy on our own. But that’s hard for other to believe as we could never experience what the opposite gender experiences. But for us as men I’m saying yes. You do t have to believe it.

[boundless]

It's pretty easy to be happy as a man when you don't have to deal with women. That said, women can be fun and not so fun at the same time. It's a mixed bag. You have to take the good with the bad, but often the bad outweighs the good so you have to determine if it's something you really want to deal with.

[Asker]

There are the ape sh*t crazy toxic relationships that can break you.
There are normal relationships where couples disagree from time to time.
Then there are the no strings attached, no labels situationships that exist.

I think in many cases, people have this delusional that relationships are supposed to be so happy all the time. All relationships have hard points in them that CAN break you if you let them (not talking about toxic ones), and many men and women don't want to do anything even remotely challenging to try to fix them, so they point fingers at one another and say it's all his/her fault, but never back at themselves. I think mature people can tell the difference and know that yeah, they might need to work on a relationship that may be worth it.

[boundless]

You shouldn't have to fight and there shouldn't be points that will "break you". If that's the case, then you're with the wrong person. Small disagreements and minor annoyances are to be expected. Both people have their own personality and both have to compromise a little bit to accommodate the other person. At the end of the day, there should be a net positive to your life, however that is rarely the case. You should have more good times than annoyances and disagreements. You can't "fix" people. They are who they are... Nothing you do is going to "fix" the situation. Either it working or it's not going to work.

[Anonymous]

As many as women are happy that say they're happy without male interaction.

I'll tell you how I feel about it. As a guy when you reach a certain age you just really enjoy peace. It's not that women are bad. It's that a lot of women bring chaos to a man's life. Good women never lose value. But at a certain point a guy just looks at a woman and goes. Ya know what, I'm pretty happy the way my life is. I don't want to gamble my peace on her. It's not that the guy is really happy. It's that he's happy enough. And it's that he looks at her and says "it could be a whole lot worse with her potentially".

Hope that helps you.

[drummerdude25]

I wouldn’t say I’m like completely happy, but I’m content enough with being alone… it would be nice to have someone around that I really cared for, that brought some fun, value, and peace to my life… but I’d rather be alone than have to contend with a toxic woman.

[Zack-Bann]

I’m glad most guys are being honest here


No they lie when they say they’re happy


They either lie to the world or to themselves (the truly warped ones)


And it’s all the fault of the participation trophy culture that created generations of men who can’t cope with the idea of failing or losing that they need to turn the discourse around to guarantee their win

[Finchie40]

In most cases yes , but not completely true , just depends on the girl and whether she brings happiness into our life or misery into our
Life , the ones that bring misery , we try to avoid at all costs , but the ones that bring happiness , can be a part of our lives as much as she wants to.

[beefcakebradybatson]

"No Girls Allowed?" If they're straight, they haven't (or don't want to) learn how to appreciate and attract lasses.

[McLlovin]

Happiness is a perspective. Am I happy without a woman? Yes. Would i be happier with one yes. I dont need a woman, I want one, there's a difference. Everyone should initially be happy without needing to be with someone. Im talking only to single people. Your happiness should never hinge on being in a relationship, that is actually a red flag, however if you “hate” the opposite gender thats a different subject on its own.

[slatyb]

Perhaps a few, but not many The rest have given up because finding a partner would require some change, and they can't begin to admit that they may be less than perfect. So instead of figuring out how to make themselves more attractive, they blame the world for their lack of success.

[Anonymous]

After a while with constant rejection, he begins to think about the fact that you really don't need women to survive. When you get around then it doesn't feel good and when you stay away from them it may feel empty. But empty is better then the kind of toxicity that you'll experience with women who don't like you and aren't attracted to you and those are usually the same women. If you approach any of them, you will quickly find out how toxic things can get since women routinely hate men who approach them them that they are attracted to. I gave up on women a few years ago and I'm glad I did. I found some peace in this world that I never had before. A very needed Peace as it turned out. At least for me. Women are nothing but trouble.

[LiamJHayden]

Not really. Too many guys go on TikTok or Youtube, look at the absolutely worst examples of women, and then broadbrush "all" as being that way. The average lady requires faithfulness and attention and yes, that the guy have some income. She does not require 6'+, $500K minimum income, etc.

[HollyK21]

I’m my opinion the ones who are actually happy about it aren’t bragging about it lol usually those are the incels trying to convince the world that they don’t need the women who already don’t want them💀

[HollyK21]

**in

[manbehindscreen]

It's nothing to be proud about, it's simply a lifestyle choice. Some men are needy of female companionship, so other men get the impression that they are stronger. Part of the reason men stop wanting women is because they go straight to attacking your masculinity during a disagreement, like calling him an incel for example.

[HollyK21]

If it doesn’t apply, let it fly. I’m guessing that yourself and the other 5 men who downvoted this question take issue with that word, so is it one that you can relate to? It’s not an attack if the word fits the narrative. @Abbycado what do you call these men again? Fuckwits?

[Abbycado]

Yep, that is a correct usage of the word. XD

[manbehindscreen]

I didn't downvote anything so you can stop your projection now, everything will be alright. You don't need a man to survive in the modern world. Acting despicably by cutting down random men, especially men that are unwanted and already feel bad to begin with, just shows bad character and does nothing to help the world.

[HollyK21]

Saying that I’ll be alright while you’re literally in your feelings over a word is the epitome of projecting lol but ok. Again, if it doesn’t apply let it fly. So if you feel cut down by my words (which were never directed towards you, I don’t even know you), then I don't know what to tell ya.

[Jackblue]

No not really, because we can't engage in much physical affection other than with our lovers. Women can braid each other's hair, cry into each other's shoulders, and sit on each other's laps. Men don't do that sort of thing with other men and we stop doing it with our moms and sisters when we are like six or seven. We naturally feel lonely when we are single.

[snermcger]

No. They are not. You can only fake the funk for so long. You need a woman.

It's human nature. We need companionship, we need love, and intimacy. We need sex.

Denying yourself any of that due to... fill in the blank... is denying yourself of a fulfilled life.

NOW... if you're 55, divorced, kids are grown, pension, blah blah then not required.

If you're 25? Get in the game.

[Nikki1989]

Of course not, with very few exceptions. It is hilarious when they try to pretend otherwise. You can tell by their outright insecure bitterness.

[kaucky1]

I like female interaction a real lot but having other guys around it goes limp on me but the other guy might get beat up even if they got guns or other weapons maybe a couple grenades but that may not kill me neither🫢🤭but the girld get preoccupied with me the length some go to get some kind of orgasm

[Pohjolan]

Is it really 100% without interaction or are they still in contact with their female relatives because its not the same?

Anyway some men enjoy their freedom more than others. Don't worry about it.

Some dude being out there having the time of his life is not away from you.

[RavVid]

Girls are chaos and drama

Obviously every straight guy wants quality vagina time. It is a matter of minimizing the former but still getting the later the latter.

Other than the later we don't need female interaction.

[Anonymous]

Just going to leave this here... And yes i believe they are as happy as they say they are, Why? Because we dont have to spend time listening to someone who treats us like garbage and follows the latest idiotic feminist trends.

[i_like_tofu]

It is human nature to want companionship. We usually do best together rather than alone.

But many humans are crazy so if these men had very bad experiences in previous relationships then maybe they are happier now.

But that doesn't mean it's the happiest they could possibly be. Sometimes we just gotta go with what we think is the best option.

[BadApple69]

My opinion…. I don’t think they are straight! If a guy says he doesn’t need girls then he is a liar or he is gay.

[Bricealan]

No. I think they are in denial. I have female companionship when I want, and wish I had a full-time partner

[abc3643]

What do you mean by female interaction? So like if I talk to the cashier at Dollar General does that count as female interaction?

[InknKink]

Nope.

I think those men are bored. Women may be a bit chaotic at times but what's life without a little randomness?

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

I think it’s more likely they’re just asexual and never heard of the term, but yeah. I believe it.

[Guanfei]

Happier than they'll be with women around. People like that usually became like that because they went through some shit with women, enough to make them want to stay away from them.
Seems like it bother women more than them.

[OneViewpoint]

Sure, some are. Some aren’t. Some are lying to others. Some are lying to themselves.

[Straight2thepoint]

No. Either too many toxic girls are in his circle or he is just trying to be alone and value himself before even dating. It's going to take a worthy girl to brake that wall.

[Rahulsingh17]

They could be. Every individual has different needs.

[Sexiestjohnson]

No. If a person like women, he cannot enjoy going on with life without any interaction

[Alex-Snow]

Hard to say. Everyone is different and they may be happy or just are happy with masturbation and no relationship.

[Danny_dan92]

That’s basically me, only thing that is keeping me from being happy is that I’m somewhat in a bad spot financially. But overtime it’ll improve

[Anonymous]

I think some are truly happy and others just have sour grapes. You can’t generalize 100%.

[mysteriousNicholas]

Amen 🙏🏻🙌🏻

[Asker]

Oh, I believe some are truly happen, but not the ones online writing hate vlogs about women and taking no responsibility for anything in any relationship ever.

[Awesomesauce2005]

With the current quality of women, yes we are happier alone. If women were actually pleasant to be around we would prefer being around women to being alone

[manbehindscreen]

Of course, men are more ruggedly independent by nature while women are more hive-minded. It is more women that put on a facade of being happy alone. You can see it too because they project it onto men quite often.

[zagor]

I wouldn't say I'm very happy at present but that state has nothing to do with the current lack of female companionship.

[AngryCarl2]

A famous man (I think it was Lincoln) once said: "Dames... you can't live with 'em, but you sure can't live without 'em!"

[genericname85]

Sure but it doesn't mean you wouldn't be happy about being with a girl.

[MJVillarama]

Maybe some are truly fine solo, but human connection usually matters more than we admit.

[Anonymous]

No of course not. I know that I'm not... but there is nothing I can do about it.
Girls I like - Usually don't like me back.
Girls who like me - Are usually not my type.

[Brady]

I like female interaction from the internet n at work w/out gettin married.

[FortesFortunaAdiuvat]

for daily relationship yes. but because of our hormones we need to women :)

[guesswhereivebeen]

Yeah for sure… there’s a ton of gays that agree I bet also

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

I don't think are straight. Straight men desire female interaction.

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

* they

[Twalli]

Most who say this don't know what it's like to be with a girl.

[beefcakebradybatson]

Sometimes, but often not.(Don't think I wish I had a buxom blonde babe?)

[seeyounexttuesday]

No. Just like all the independent wamen who don't need no man.

[spoonkid]

depends, I've been diagnosed with schizoids personality disorder and i genuinely im indifferent

[Godihateyou]

In 2025. Absolutely. No sane person would waste their life with a run through American girl.

[robocop666]

if they have had relationships its from trauma

[DMurff]

Same with women. Sometimes its good to not engage with the male!!!

[Anonymous]

I think we under estimate women’s aggression. Many men suffer from it.

[manbehindscreen]

Women are way more vicious. I saw it in a dating show recently where the men were politely trying to turn down the women, whereas the women just tore the men apart for not being what they wanted.

[Flower7]

Definitely not.

[Staximus]

No, most of them are full of shit

[Dreamclouds]

Of course not that is biggest bullshit

[ohsheeT]

They are all gay.

[Jmmmfi4]

Im definitely not

[nolabels]

Nope.