Ready for a relationship when someone else was interested?

[Anonymous]

The guy I’m dating, him and I started as friends. He recently revealed that he didn’t want to settle down until other guys were interested in me and he realized he didn’t want to lose me. Could he genuinely be into me or just selfish? lol

[HollyK21]

This is very specifically for you to determine, mainly because you know him best and should have an idea of whether or not he’s being genuine. If you feel in your heart that he meant it then give him a chance and only time will tell. If you think he’s doing some weird player shit then be honest with yourself about that and place him back in the friendzone. What this means and where it goes is entirely up to you.

[Anonymous]

It depends. There are many factors to know when a guy is serious and if he just want to possess you. Needs more context.

[Anonymous]

Maybe he didn't understand his feelings. I didn't realize I felt a certain way about someone until I stopped seeing her all the time.

[RHK36]

He told you his intentions most likely out of guilt. If you stick around then don't complain later.

[Asker]

Like, he doesn’t genuinely like me?

[In_Trance]

Smh... Where do you find these shit heads?