So here is my thing. You can pump milk and use a bottle, if you are prepared. I don't want to go in a restaurant and a lady has her tit out, looking at me some kinda way because I happened to see her tit out. The world doesn't owe anyone any understanding. Everyone has responsibilities and stresses, asking the world to take a breath and understand yours is pretty ridiculous. As I'm sure you wouldn't care to understand why a homeless man is pooping on the street, instead you'd just be grossed out just seeing the act, as is human nature. In the same way, it's human nature to be shocked upon seeing a random tit.
Did you just compare nourishing my baby to defecting? Furthermore, you know nothing about breastfeeding. My child would not take a bottle. Furthermore I chose to breastfeed, I should not be forced to bottle feed because someone might get uncomfortable. Just look away if mammary glands serving their natural purpose offends you. π
Okay, so you don't care what others think, yet you want others to be understanding toward your situation. Sounds pretty selfish to me.
Again, the world doesn't owe you any understanding, it will continue long after you are gone.
The same way you don't care to understand the plight of the homeless man who needs to perform the natural function of pooping. HE chooses to poop, and you can just look away! lol
My baby would not take a bottle. Did you miss that part? I donβt want him to starve. Plus I chose to do the natural thing and breastfeed. The βbottlesβ are my boobs. Pumping to feed when I have the perfect feeding mechanisms is just stupid.
why on earth would anyone hate on women breastfeeding... just one thing tough please when doing it don't expose yourself to the public so other dudes looking wouldn't be taken as weirdos
Thank you. And yet they do. Honestly every time I see a notification for this take I cringe wondering if someone will accuse me of exposing myself or propagating pornography. I will soldier on because it is a cause close to my heart. But I did and still do receive a lot of hate. And my youngest son weaned 2 years ago for Peteβs sake!
@loves2learn obviously i treat women like Normal people if a woman is breastfeeding most of the time i try avoiding contact whatsoever because i mean she is doing other stuff and it's not the best circumstances to be approaching women cause it's a vulnerable position... that's why it's best to do it at home... but hey since I'm not your boss you can do it even in your office you just have to bear with what it can come with
More power to ya. I am sure it did not and I am happy you and her mom made the best choice for your family. Alls I ask is please donβt judge me for choosing to breastfeed. Capish?
It is crazy. You will see it across my series too. People telling me to stay home, cover that up, itβs private, itβs unhygienic, itβs nasty, the list goes on. π
Could be. I have someone just fighting me to the death that breastfeeding in public is pornography, rude, inconsiderate, she is also calling me a sociopath. π Canβt make this shit up.
Sounds like her emotions are running on overdrive. Needs to take a step back and use critical thinking skills based on core values we all learned (still learning) growing up.
I'm sorry but if you pull out your tits to show off and best even take a picture for Instagram and a video for tictoc of you breastfeeding your baby, i will rise my eyebrow and frown on you. And i think I'm perfectly reasonable in doing so.
If i see that you do it discretely obviously just to feed the baby, then sure. No issues.
I hope you do to! It is an amazing experience. My best advice is the first 6 weeks are the hardest. After that is smooth sailing. And never quit on your worst day. πΊβ€οΈ
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When I grew up this was normal and nobody paid attention to it. This is just natural.
As it should be. Thank you so much for saying this. π
So here is my thing. You can pump milk and use a bottle, if you are prepared. I don't want to go in a restaurant and a lady has her tit out, looking at me some kinda way because I happened to see her tit out. The world doesn't owe anyone any understanding. Everyone has responsibilities and stresses, asking the world to take a breath and understand yours is pretty ridiculous. As I'm sure you wouldn't care to understand why a homeless man is pooping on the street, instead you'd just be grossed out just seeing the act, as is human nature. In the same way, it's human nature to be shocked upon seeing a random tit.
Did you just compare nourishing my baby to defecting? Furthermore, you know nothing about breastfeeding. My child would not take a bottle. Furthermore I chose to breastfeed, I should not be forced to bottle feed because someone might get uncomfortable. Just look away if mammary glands serving their natural purpose offends you. π
Okay, so you don't care what others think, yet you want others to be understanding toward your situation. Sounds pretty selfish to me.
Again, the world doesn't owe you any understanding, it will continue long after you are gone.
The same way you don't care to understand the plight of the homeless man who needs to perform the natural function of pooping. HE chooses to poop, and you can just look away! lol
Youβre just ignorant and uneducated. Plus the law protects me so fuck off.
Right.. Says the self-important dingbat who refuses to use a bottle. The law also protects prostitutes in some states. That doesn't mean it's right.
My baby would not take a bottle. Did you miss that part? I donβt want him to starve. Plus I chose to do the natural thing and breastfeed. The βbottlesβ are my boobs. Pumping to feed when I have the perfect feeding mechanisms is just stupid.
why on earth would anyone hate on women breastfeeding... just one thing tough please when doing it don't expose yourself to the public so other dudes looking wouldn't be taken as weirdos
Thank you. And yet they do. Honestly every time I see a notification for this take I cringe wondering if someone will accuse me of exposing myself or propagating pornography. I will soldier on because it is a cause close to my heart. But I did and still do receive a lot of hate. And my youngest son weaned 2 years ago for Peteβs sake!
And no one looking is seen as a weirdo. Just treat me like a normal person.
@loves2learn obviously i treat women like Normal people if a woman is breastfeeding most of the time i try avoiding contact whatsoever because i mean she is doing other stuff and it's not the best circumstances to be approaching women cause it's a vulnerable position... that's why it's best to do it at home... but hey since I'm not your boss you can do it even in your office you just have to bear with what it can come with
I would always get weird looks when i would breastfeed.
Itβs really sad isnβt it?
It's a very special kind of love <3
It is indeed. That picture is so beautiful.
I've never understood why anyone has a issue with mothers breastfeeding it's ridiculous sweetheart
It is. Bothers me more than just about anything else.
@loves2learn It's beyond ridiculous hun xx
I just love to see mums feed there little ones it the best part of being a baby mums love and food...
Very true. π
They say "Breast fed is best fed". Only fools hate on women for feeding their infant child when he is hungry.
Indeed. Thank you for the support. And FTR I donβt hate on formula feeding mothers either. I hate on mothers who donβt feed their babies.
I love babies. Not breast feeding would be a deal breaker for me. I want muh Momma and our kids Strong!😉
Awwwww. That is so sweet. :)
My daughter was bottle-fed - it didn't harm her and was a lot more convenient.
More power to ya. I am sure it did not and I am happy you and her mom made the best choice for your family. Alls I ask is please donβt judge me for choosing to breastfeed. Capish?
yes, I understand.
I was very private in breastfeeding and it was a huge struggle. I am supportive of mothers who nurse their babies in public. This is a natural thing.
It's crazy the simple act of feeding a toddler is considered inappropriate, people suck 😡
It is crazy. You will see it across my series too. People telling me to stay home, cover that up, itβs private, itβs unhygienic, itβs nasty, the list goes on. π
Iβve found out the ones that get hate on are good looking moms with some nice big breasts.
Jealousy?
I imagine such
Could be. I have someone just fighting me to the death that breastfeeding in public is pornography, rude, inconsiderate, she is also calling me a sociopath. π Canβt make this shit up.
She is on this very post in fact. π
Sounds like her emotions are running on overdrive. Needs to take a step back and use critical thinking skills based on core values we all learned (still learning) growing up.
I'm sorry but if you pull out your tits to show off and best even take a picture for Instagram and a video for tictoc of you breastfeeding your baby, i will rise my eyebrow and frown on you. And i think I'm perfectly reasonable in doing so.
If i see that you do it discretely obviously just to feed the baby, then sure. No issues.
I think itβs a beautiful thing in one day hope to do it in the future
I hope you do to! It is an amazing experience. My best advice is the first 6 weeks are the hardest. After that is smooth sailing. And never quit on your worst day. πΊβ€οΈ
πππππ sorry about the ugly mask. I sausage fingered it.
lol π itβs all good a thank you π
I'm not a mom yet, but when I am, I'll breastfeed proudly no matter where I am.
you will be :)
better to have babies being breast fed instead of having chemical laced baby formula. I will never say anything to a mother whose doing that.
I agree. I know formula has its place to a point and I wonβt judge but I ask those folks donβt judge me either.
totally, people should mind their business with that kind of thing.
Yes they should. It is really annoying when they insert themselves where they donβt belong.
Okay but they should bring some for the whole class ya know why does little baby son of a bitch gets to hog those fun bags
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Thanks to share this kind of topic. I think breastfeeding is a natural act. Breastfeed also the perfect meal for child till a certain age.
I don't see the big deal, the has to eat. It's a natural thing. It's best for the baby to breastfeed they grow stronger