How would you react if you found out your best friend was dying?

[Keyspirits]

What would you do for them? Will u spend more time with them than usual or list anything else on your mind?

[AmIReallyAGirl]

damn it, that would call for some serious together times, and as many days hanging out as possible.

Maybe creating some memories together, like cooking and eating meals together, painting or doing other creative things, encouraging them to do things they've always dreamed of and helping them do those things, talking about how they have affected your life and how they will continue to affect your life once they're gone. my grandfather recently died and I take comfort in the fact that he knew that I would never forget him and that I would continue to be motivated by him my entire life. Also, just listening to your friend's desires and generally just being present with them if they want you to be even when they don't have anything to say, just being there as a comfort to them, not being pushy, just responding to their needs.

[Keyspirits]

Thats the fun things im thinken of as well. Surprise ur the 1st in the 20th opinions to mention dat =)
Those are good stuffs u should definitely go for. Unforgivable memories right there..

[bunnahies]

id do anything they want me to do, that doesn't involve me eating foreign things that dont belong in my body.
id spend more time with them and buy them whatever i can afford. theyd probably get sick of me.

[Keyspirits]

Thats nice! Why would they get sick of u when ur always there for them..they should be HAPPY

[bunnahies]

if i go see them everyday, theyd get bored :(

[DodgersGM]

I'd be devastated for both selfish and selfless reasons. I'd mourn my imminent loss of their friendship, but I'd also feel incredibly hurt for them that they couldn't fulfill their life's promise, and I'd mourn for them all of the missed adventures and fun that they won't get to experience.

Honestly, I'd just do my very best to put on a brave face, give them a shoulder to cry on and a hand to hold for when they're scared, and I'd do my best to help make their final days as comfortable and pain-free as possible. But inside I'd be tormented and depressed.

[Keyspirits]

That is incredibly some poweful words right there ma old man.
U are a man one in a million hard to find xD

[Sex_Panther]

I would ask them what they wanted. If they wanted to die without me around I obey without question; if they wanted me there everyday I would do so as much as I could no matter how it inconvenienced me. I've done this twice already.

[Keyspirits]

Tee hee
How supportive :3
I'd probably would visit as often as possible even if he/she dont want meh there...cuz somewhere deep inside, they are lying to themself and always want u to be there for them.

[Sex_Panther]

I wish I hadn't learned the hard way that's not always true.

[Keyspirits]

Yeah depends on how well u know the person. Theyvmay be concern about ur daily life so they probably wouldn't want u be here for dat reason.

[Sex_Panther]

It was something like that...

[meibay313]

My best friend and i actually talked about this and we made promise to each other that if one of us die first, then one gonna take care the other's parents instead of her. I will keep her in my heart. Live an awesome life that she couldn't have instead of her, Working hard and enjoying every second of life. And hope she does the same :)

[chocolateismylover]

Awwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww

[Keyspirits]

Awww thats so sweet and kind of y'all <3

[meibay313]

Thank you :)

[meibay313]

And if she's dying, I would be brave, and support her and take care of her and her family and probably cry afterward every single night :(

[Keyspirits]

Awww is it ok if i be there with u as well? It hurts like a sword piercing through ma heart to see someone in tears =|

[meibay313]

haha sweeeeeeeet :D

[Keyspirits]

Its always sweet when u know there's someone that stays by ur side and give u everything u need to be happy. Its not gonna be as sweet without someone alongside u x)

[meibay313]

true :)

[Keyspirits]

there's nothing u wanna do with her for both ur last moment together?

[meibay313]

I guess whatever she wants to do.. I will do it with her. I think she probably wants to go to beach, and I will drive her there.

[Keyspirits]

Whatever she wants to do, u will do it with her? What if she told u to jump off the bridge together with her, would u do it? True friendship right thurrr :3

[meibay313]

haha my friend isn't that kind of type so :)

[Keyspirits]

Lol u wouldn't do it right? So its not whatever she wanna do :3
y'all dont mind wearing bikini running around @ the beach?

[meibay313]

haha I would do it :) all i'm saying is my friend isn't kind of person who ask that kind of stuffs haha

[Keyspirits]

Haha never! Everyone sure is afraid of death =P
If its my time to go, ill drag ma best friend wif meh so we can continued on our friendship in heaven x)

[meibay313]

interesting but I don't think you would go to heaven if you bring your friend with you LOL

[Keyspirits]

LOL! Where do u expect meh and ma best friend to go than D=
Dont scare meh lye dat >.>

[meibay313]

not sure haha just that if you "make" your friend died with you, then you won't go to heaven haha

[Keyspirits]

Lol is dat so. Its a sin isn't it =x
She might go up and probably ill go down alone from making her =/
I shall remember dat logic

[meibay313]

yep :)

[Keyspirits]

Got'cha

[harakiri]

I wouldn't know why to do honestly. I'd be in a state of shock. I couldn't imagine not having our random adventures or going to the same Thai place each week. I'd be devastated.

[harakiri]

what*

[Keyspirits]

Yeah..its perrty shocking to hear such horrible news like dis =

y'all went to a thai place? Do y'all speak thai lol

[harakiri]

It is...

and no, we just love thai food lol

[Keyspirits]

Do y'all get to try the white noodles that have like meat balls and shrimp in it?

[harakiri]

Nah. She loves green curry with shrimp and i get kee mao fried rice or red curry :P

[Keyspirits]

Oh ma got! Sounds soo delicious! Alrdy maken ma mouth watery juz thinken about it >.>
Would be nice if y'all invite meh next time

[harakiri]

Hahahaha, I'm getting hungry thinking about it too... Will definitely have to invite you, Key :P

[Keyspirits]

Those white noodles are really good. U should definitely try it if they have it.

[harakiri]

Will do :D

[sovetskii13]

I would try and spend more time with him. Go somewhere and do some fun activities that he will really enjoy. It's so I can have great memories about the last things we did together.

[DragonWolf]

I would try to find a way to save his life, and do everything with him he wants to do before he dies :) (like skydiving, visiting places, stuff like that :) )

[MaskofInsanity]

Ughh, it would destroy me.

I'd tell her to pack her bags because I'm taking her on a final adventure.

[Keyspirits]

Haha off on a journey to another island?

[MaskofInsanity]

Wherever she wants to go :)

[Keyspirits]

U make a nice bic sis for her =)

[MaskofInsanity]

Ha she's older than me :)

[Keyspirits]

Great juz look after ur bic sis is all she ask for ^

[springocelot]

have my hear sink, cry when no one is looking, then do as many things as possible with them

[Keyspirits]

What is one thing dat u would do?

[springocelot]

take a trip somewhere, it depends on their condition

[LovelySerene]

Have a whole list of things to do before they die, and do them all...no matter how crazy...no friend of mine is going without a bang

[Keyspirits]

Lol without a bang :3
Have a few crazy list dat u wanna show meh?

[LovelySerene]

Travel the world and try the nastiest looking food, including bugs

[Keyspirits]

Lol..what da "L"
Including centipede and worms? D=

[LovelySerene]

Yup, and I'd film everything

[Keyspirits]

Lol ur insane! No wonder ur not afraid of anything at all >.>
I'd be throwing shiat up

[LovelySerene]

Oh I'd be grossed out, but it's worth it

[Keyspirits]

I could never do dat. Im very sensitive in tasting things. I'd throw up immediately if i taste something bad even the slightest bit of it.

[LovelySerene]

Lol awwwww

[Keyspirits]

U wouldn't mind eating human flesh too would u :3

[LovelySerene]

Haha now that's too far

[Keyspirits]

Lol u can't =P
Its disgusting >.>

[LovelySerene]

Lol I'm not that deranged

[angelstar07]

I would be sad. I will spend more time than usual of course. Sent them beautiful messages and create a memorable time together before they are gone from this world. :)

[Slavanna]

If I had one, I'd probably spend more time with them than usual, bid them farewell and name my next pet after them. Not much more I could do, right?

[Thatguy321]

Id feel for them, and hoped they'd get better or dont suffer but thats be it, I'm not that close to my best friend any more and i literally couldn't visit him for anything

[rgb008]

I'd be heartbroken in a way. I wouldn't know what I'd do with out my best friend.

[Keyspirits]

Yeah...=

How are u guys gonna spend the last moment together?

[gonyr]

I would definitely spend as much time wth them as possible.

[chocolateismylover]

My best friend and I have this weird bond thing. A friendship like ours would never end even if one of us dies. We both believe in the after life.

[Keyspirits]

So she's like a sis to u...whats left in the after
Ife y'all think?

[meibay313]

Sweeeeeet :)

[princesswitch]

I'd really sad, but I'd do my best to make her last days awesome.

[Blacklonewolf]

If both of my best friends died, I'm not sure if I would want to live or not

[Keyspirits]

Life is still a long way to go. U can't juz give up yet...theres so much things to do in life.

[Blacklonewolf]

I know, and I wouldn't end my life without reason

[Keyspirits]

Hang in there..nothing last forever =|

[Blacklonewolf]

Sadly I know that very well.

[Anonymous]

I don't know, it's tough for me to answer. I would probably just try to drop in often to check up on them and keep them in my thoughts. Since it's a friend it's different than a family member.

[Keyspirits]

Yeah..i'd do the same. Juz so he knows that his best bud is right beside him.

[PANDAmonium]

I'd be fucking upset as hell and quite honestly wouldn't know what to do.

[Keyspirits]

I'd probably be the same. I would be so shock and froze there like a statue thinken what to do..

[mario1321]

More time is good, thats what im doing although it feels almost like a chore

[Keyspirits]

at least that person stick with u through thick and thin. That should be enough of a reason to spend the last moment with that special person

[mario1321]

That is completely true

[llorando]

How the hell did this happen, I don't have a best friend.

[Keyspirits]

Only gurlfriend? What would u do for her?

[llorando]

Don't have a girl friend either, but I would give her a date she'd never forget.

[Keyspirits]

Hahaa take her sumwhere fresh and all is good

[iamnotalizard]

Id take him to a strip club, and buy him an arsenal of expensive hookers