It's obvious she's sick but why won't she tell me?

[Anonymous]

My girlfriend is sick but she won't tell me. It worries me that she doesn't trust me enough. We were grocery shopping today and she passed out. She did not look good enough to go because when she is light headed or dizzy she is very quiet and walks very slow and does not play music. I usually wake up to her blasting music downstairs. I told her she could stay home but she wanted to go. I saw her swaying so I let her lean on me and I pushed the cart. She is stubborn so she just grasped my arm and said she was fine. Then she passed out and was kind of pale. When she regained consciousness she told me she was fine just tired and wanted to go home. It's just not that it's been the whole month she hasn't been like herself. Migraines, she is usually very sexually active but this month she has asked me to stop because her stomach was hurting really bad, constantly hot, dizziness and very tired. She loves to drive but she's been asking me to take her places because she's too tired. I know she gets enough sleep. I asked her friend if she knew anything and she told me she threw up at her house but denied it. Why won't she just admit she needs help?

[notsothrillinglife]

Aside from her possibly being pregnant, it sounds like she could have Mononucleosis. I know with Mono people are tired all the time, and it can last from a few weeks to a few months. I actually got tested for Mono a few months ago because I felt dizzy and tired all the time, and even was nauseous on a few occasions. She could have a stomachache because her spleen/liver are swollen, which could also be why she threw up. I also got a lot of hot flashes, had a headache, and didn't feel like doing anything. The doctors said I probably had Mono, but you can't really tell without a blood test.

Whether it be pregnancy, Mono, or something else, I wish you good luck!

[CommieDearest]

Uh...she could totally be pregnant. Also, if it's something more serious, she may be putting off going to a doctor.

[CommieDearest]

Damn I didn't see someone else wrote that haha. But many women especially in the first trimester can have all of those symptoms.

[Anonymous]

well im no doctor but you sir are going to have a child. :p I don't know maybe she isn't being healthy? i dont think a stomach virus would last a whole month

[CommieDearest]

Yeah he's about to have an even worse virus that lasts until you die if you're not a piece of shit. Break out the cigars.

[Opinion Owner]

hahahha children ARE viruses huh damn dude your wife has a virus haha why the cigars?

[silly09]

Oh, they can last a month. DX My entire month of February was spent dealing with the flu the first week, and then a stomach virus from the second week to the third week of March. 'Twas pure hell.

[Asker]

She is very healthy.
I never expected her to be pregnant I mean we always use protection we never use old condoms.

[Opinion Owner]

condoms are like 98% accurate segun but I don't know that one person commented that she had the flu for a month so maybe she is sick? you should check her diet maybe she isn't getting a lot of veggies and fruits..i recommend a nutribullet... or a simple blender.. blend fruit and veggies with water and drink up...nutrition is always important and if she's preggo then even more so.. again i dont know if you guys are being healthy already or not (just a reminder) .. good luck with life man ill leave you at that :)

[mirage06]

She might be pregnant. But if she's just normally sick she may just not want to tell you for some reason.

[Asker]

We used protection and never any old condoms. So I don't understand how she would get pregnant.

[mirage06]

Idk, maybe she's just sick then.

[silly09]

Perhaps she doesn't know?

[eunika]

It sounds like she is pregnant.