Should I lose weight? Good Program? Motivation?

[Anonymous]

Hi all! So I am 5'4" and about 130. I am a pear shape (I find shopping difficult because I have a pair of jeans that are size 6 that fit great and another that is size 10) but not huge and fairly muscular. I feel kind of uncomfortable with my body. I am from a super conservative family where you are not allowed to wear certain things and parts of your body are "ugly". (Meaning we always cover from 2 fingers below our collar bones to where our finger tips come on our thighs, and loose clothing. Also, no bikinis. I am now starting to make my own choices though.) My family is also (very) thin and toned so they don't understand (they eat whatever they want). We are also not active due to my brother being physically handicapped. I have nothing wrong with being modest but I don't think body confidence should suffer. So essentially, I am wondering how much weight I should lose. I started running and eating better but cheat way to much (my family eats poorly). I try to drink 10+ cups of water a day. I think I am going to start Insanity. I want to get to 120 or 115. I really need help with motivation though. Some days I feel really excited to lose weight and other days not at all. I met a few people the other day and they had their belly button's pierced so I thought that would be good motivation (but it would have to be secret or hidden). All my friends say that they are skanky though. What do y'all think? I am smart, I get good grades, I don't drink, I don't have a boyfriend... Anyway, I just want to know what you all think. (Meaning on weight loss, Insanity (or similar program), and navel rings) Thanks!

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Thanks you all! :D

[Ghosty]

I have no idea of those American units, but if you want to loose some, some tips are (don't feel like typing much today lol. I should do that once and then just copy paste it..):
Check out the comments on my answer here:>> www.girlsaskguys.com/.../q1089621-how-can-i-lose-1-inch-4cm-from-my-thighs

Also YouTube for keywords like Motivational, fitness motivation etc. to pump yourself up.

[AdamThomas]

That's just how it goes, some days you'll be really motivated, other days you won't feel like doing the work - you just have to do it anyway and make no excuses.

[AdamThomas]

Thanks for, MH

[Flippydaydream]

i dont know because im 130, a lot of muscle because I've been working my ass off for 3 moths to loose 6 pounds... basically it will be hard to loose if its your ideal weight. seems it is if your 5'4... im 5'3" and people call me slim/thin... i dont think your overweight at all. maybe just have thicker thighs... mine are medium sized size 6-9 depending on brand.

[Asker]

Thank you! :)