Why does sex have to be so dangerous?

[Anonymous]

I don't want to harm myself. It seems like if I ever have sex with a person and I don't know their sexual history I'm in trouble. And whatever they have and I can get and I can pass it on to my baby if I ever got pregnant and there's no cure for it or I didn't get rid of the sti/std

[Inquisitivelou]

That's just the rules. Great risk, great reward. Massive swaths of the population are infected with various infections/diseases that they show no symtoms of. We are also walking sponges for environmental toxins, absorbing all kinds of unnatural airborne chemicals. Humanity is pretty fragile. One of the best parts of life is sharing it though. One of the best sensations is physical intimacy with a loved one. Life happens, illness happens, death happens. If we live afraid of any of those three things we're not getting the most beauty out of tge experience though. We can be cautious about the second 2, but all humans have a statiscal certainty of cancet if they live long enough to reach their body's susceptability point, and all humans die. In fact most of what we will ever do during the span of eternity is be dead. We only get to live a little. So live a little.

[Inquisitivelou]

can't edit my typos I guess.
*the
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Respectively.

[Inquisitivelou]

*statistical.
Meh. Thumbs.

[Asker]

It's fine. I understood most of what you wrote. You don't have to be a perfectionist. :-)

[Inquisitivelou]

Really though, you don't know if that cute boy you want to kiss is medicine's first case of asymptomatic rabies. Might die. Fuck it tho, get your kiss on. Take your little precautions but a sense of order is a product of man's ego-sick mind ;-)

[thetundrawolf]

Perhaps that's why it's better to get to know a man, to discover one another, how much he loves you, over an extended period of celibacy, before getting married, and then sharing each others bodies?

[523206720]

If you want - you can get the guy to test himself before he sleeps with you. Find a guy who is committed to you and wiling to get himself tested out before you guys engage in sexual activity.

[Prof_Don]

Almost anything extremely thrilling requires some risk, and precaution for doing such.

Just make sure u have sex safely and trust ur partner will so the same. :)

[7heDubz]

One simple thing to fix your troubles. Condoms. Double layer em if your that concerned.

[napoleonebonaparte]

The sex shouldn't harm yourself... you should be happy to do it..
Maybe you have to try some new experience... maybe doing sex with a full bladder!

[Asker]

I do! And I get turned on alot, but most of the time, I just back off because I know that I want to wait till I can afford a family and the guy I'm with isn't just using me for sex. I enjoy sex as much as the next person too I'm not a prude.

[napoleonebonaparte]

Sorry but I don't know Wath sti/std means

[jointhepatriarchy]

Because God hates adultery. So he uses biological warfare on those who partake in it.

[molan]

Sex is not dangerous, promiscuous and unsafe sex however is.