hey I feel the same thinking you are so much prettier and looking better but yet they pay attention to other girls. I think like someone said its the attitude we have, like we are better sometimes I do it but when is stop and keep reminding myself to stop doing that b.c. its my bad habit lol I notice wayyyy more guys like me! I just laugh and stop thinking about my looks period and what the guy thinks and just hang out and have fun that is when guys notice you. Its the laid back attitude and just being able to relax and hang out and have fun, when you have fun so do guys. Guys don't think you are uglier its that you think you are better than others its a turn off and like ah she thinks too much about herself, so stop it and be more humble ( I make the same mistake sometimes I come off as cocky I guess you can say, know you look good but don't like show it that o I look so god you are lucky I talk to you kind of a thing)
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First of all your attitude really sucks. You may be giving off an arrogant vibe that your sh*t don't stink and its not attractive. Saying that you're sooo much hotter than others girls and whatnot. Also you are looking at things in a very immature way. Just because a guy is more attracted to someone else over you, doesn't mean that you're uglier. It means that that girl has characteristics and things that drew him to her. Everyone has their type. And while you may be attractive its about the whole package. Attitude, values, mannerisms, humor, fun, etc. If you wanna attract the right guys then make sure you are confident and not cocky; be fun, outgoing, and an overall joy to be around. Command attention by being a really great person. Everything will fall into place.
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OK what do you mean by curvy? You have to be specific because nowadays people have different definitions of curvy. Are you overweight, chubby, or do you have T&A on a slim figure?
It's good that you're happy with your shape but nobody likes a cocky girl. Don't be so stuck up. If you looked WAY better than most girls why don't you have a man? I'm not trying to be a bitch but you need to come back down to earth and look at yourself objectively.
Guys think a pretty girl with confidence is sexy, but not a girl that's stuck up and thinks she's better than others.I don't think you have to be thin to be sexy. I know plenty of men who find heavier women sexy. Granted, many of these women are not noticeably overweight. They are maybe 10-30 pounds overweight and carry it well. However, there are also some men who love really big women, so don't think you have to starve yourself or be a size 0-2 to be sexy. I agree with the poster who said you might be projecting a cocky attitude. It's great that you love the way you look, but having a cocky attitude is a turn-off. If you are honestly living a healthy lifestyle with daily exercise and a proper diet but might be naturally thick, I simply recommend a change in attitude. You are still young, so there is plenty of time to find the right guy, and most importantly, don't place your self-worth on how many guys you can attract.
First, you can't think you're all that.. Guys sense it. You can't act like you're pretty and gorgeous because in reality, you might not be. So stop treating yourself like a supermodel.. Be all about personality and the guys who stick around the longest will be the ones you find. Not some jerky assholes who want some p**** for one night by looking at a nice body
IF you want guys to think you're sexy then look how they consider sexy to be. In our culture that's thin not curvy.
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