In my experience with men who had their girls lose weight, the girls got down I'm size then dumped an additional 170 pounds by dumping the boyfriend. They seem to want to experience dating in their new bodies. Careful what you wish for! I saw it happen several times.
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Heehee its kind of like my fantasy to find a cute guy and then fatten him up so he is only a tad overweight so that other women can't steal him hahaha.. slow him down a little xD
you are missing the bit where she realises she's hot and leaves you for someone better than you
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If that's what you want, sure. But it also has to be what she wants. If she's content with her body, she might not want t o lose weight. If you're too pushy, it might make her feel like you don't like her if she's overweight. I guess it would be better if you were overweight as well, and then you could lose weight together, that would be more motivating. However, getting fat so that you could lose weight again is ridiculous in my opinion XD
It may come across as controlling. Picking someone out with a preconceived plan to make them fill a role doesn't usually go well.
Buuuuttt, if you find a girl who is already trying to do those things, she'd likely enjoy the support.
There should be more important things the two of you have in common with her, thoughSounds like you're taking on a project, rather than entering it I a relationship. I get that you have good intentions, but how do you think she might feel about your motivation for being with her in the first place?
I don't think you go into a relationship knowing that you need or want to "change or fix" the other person. If having a fit healthy girl is important to you, find one. Don't make anyone but yourself a project.
Number 1-thats sweet of you
Number 2-if she wants to loose weight she will
Number 3-what about the people without pretty faces
Number4-a girl will not change for a guyUmm it's kind of horrible D: it's like you're only dating a girl just to change her
Ever think okay maybe she is with you till she loses the weight and once she does she will look for someone more attractive. She is probably thinking I will settle while I am over weight once I am skinny actually get a hot guy.
what if after she loses weight she has a lot of loose skin?
Horrible Idea.
Girls want to be loved for who they are, not changed.
If I started dating a guy, and he started trying to get me to lose weight, it would not only destroy my very very small self-esteem, but he'd get dumped. Or I'd commit suicide. Either or.aaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaawwwwwwwwwwwwwhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh
So, you would go into a relationship with a woman with the express intention of changing her.
Just like women do with men...
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