Are men clueless about weight?

[Anonymous]

My boyfriend always says he doesn't like skinny girls, but then said I'd look good at 110-115 --20+ pounds lless! I'm already at the bottom end of healthy body fat for my height, and when I weighed the amount he through out everyone was concerned I was anorexic or on the verge. He's never complained about my size, and I've overheard him say my body is perfect. So what's the deal? I know his ex fiancé/mother of his child was this size, but she was also 5'4 and 19 at the time! I'm 5'6" and 24, and at 135-140, the smallest I would ever want to be is 125--smaller than that and I had no muscle, just skin and bones. Is he just clueless?

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I assumed so I just thought I'd check---from being concerned with me trying to lose weight at all to saying I should drop 20+ pounds was a little startling lol

[slackercruster]

Midget to 7' tall. Thin or plump, but no concentration camp anorexics and no fatty's that need a wheelbarrow to lug their gut around in. Hair can be any color, from short boy pixie to long. (Just not into Afro's.)

I love the curvy gals and stacked and packed plumper's.

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Most guys would love to devour these beauties like a fat kid eats pizza! They are like a ripe, succulent, luscious! figs... just dripping with nectar!

But... personality and disposition is the bottom line. If you just go by what your dick tells you, there may be problems down the road. There has to be beauty within and not just beauty on the outside. Lots of things make up a gal, not just face and body such as: femininity, sweetness, adorability, sexiness, honesty, smarts, loyalty, being able to accept being worshipped and pampered, healthy habits, clean, not too many bad habits, orgasmic.

[slackercruster]

Orgasmic is important. If she has been abusing her clit with a vib and needs a jackhammer to get her off she is not for me.

[AdamThomas]

Top one is alright, other two I'd rather masturbate with sandpaper.

[kheserthorpe]

It's hard to judge people's weights unless you know a -lot- of people's weights.

Most of the women in my family growing up were 110-115 and 5'8 or so. They were thin, definitely. And not much muscle. But that's just how they were built, none dieted, some intentionally tried to keep their weights up.

I see other women that height with more muscle who might weigh 35+ lbs more and look -thin-, not just good, but -thin-.

Bone structure and muscle matter a lot. Ir's hard enough knowing how weight works for people a different height from you, let alone other gender.

He's basing that number most likely off a few women whose height/weight he knew.

[Asker]

That's definitely true, even at my largest my bones would protrude. likewise, even at 110 lbs my hips would be too wide to drop sizes... had to gain weight just so my pant legs didn't look 2+ sizes too big

[kheserthorpe]

It's hard to judge people with different body types. In my profile pic, i'm 165 lbs, and i'm 6'3"

[CoffeeAddict10]

He seems pretty clueless to me. Either explain it to him or just ignore it. You shouldn't even consider changing yourself for a guy, ask yourself why he is your boyfriend if he wants to change how you look

[amberos]

Number means literally nothing. Ever heard of athletes weighing close to 200? That's pure muscle and hard work. Don't base looks off a number it's toxic. I'm 110 but look about 130.

[BertMacklinFBI]

yeah he just doesn't know lol. its a number vs reality.

[DodgersGM]

Yes I'm generally clueless about a woman's weight. This just adds more justification as to why I never play the "how much do you think I weigh?" game. LOL

Anyway, I couldn't care less about a girl's number on the scale. I either like her and am attracted to her, or I am not.

[Asker]

Haha that is a dangerous game, people see the way weight falls on you and assume you're much heavier or lighter than you are, and sometimes neither are good.

[dartmaul15]

No, it's not that we're clueless, simply missinformed. Because adds and such shit have convinced us about a false look of healthy.
We think we know, because they've told us over and over that they're showing healthy women. But we're wrong... We need the truth

[AidenBlue]

Weight is just a number. How do you carry the weight? If you like the way you look, your curves, your trimmness then who cares about the number?

The pic you posted looks great. No change needed. Maybe change out the bf.

[arashmenalagha]

If you body looks hwp with no edges looking like their about to fall off and he takes you to bed and cums real hard. you have nothing to worry about k thanks bye

[meatballs21]

He's clueless. There's more to weight and body than the number on the scale.

[Anonymous]

Girls weight is the same as a guys. The only difference is, men tend to have more muscle than women

[Punkbuster107]

Yes. He is clueless.