I'm sad and now people are starting to notice and I don't know what to do?

[Anonymous]

I had a miscarriage a couple months ago and it's been very hard to deal with. I'm so sad and cry every day and I don't know what to do about it. I've not had anyone I can talk to so I've been dealing with this all alone. I try to pretend to be happy so people don't ask what's wrong but i guess it's getting harder to hide. I had a bad day yesterday and was crying all day and now I've had 3 people ask me what's wrong so far today and Im trying so hard not to cry while at work but every time I'm asked it just makes me think about everything going on and I just wanna go in the bathroom and cry. I don't know what to do, I don't even want to be around anyone anymore. I just sit in my apartment and cry all day.

[Climber]

Look on the internet. There are free help hotlines (at least here) and they can guide you to a place nearby where you can at least have a talk about your feelings with people trained for it.

[abundantlyrich]

If they ask... just tell them... Don't ask! and walk away quickly.

[Klaatu51]

try to understand that miscarriage occurs in other girls as well and it wasn't your last chnce as well... so you haven't lost anythig basically :-)

[WhoTheHellKnows]

The miscarriage wasn't your fault. Things just happen. Sometimes for a reason. So why cry so much? You'll eventually have a baby :)

[jmmmfi]

get on some anti depressants