I'm near your height and sometimes my weight goes down to 105 lbs. too. It's a fine, healthy weight. Even if you go up to 115-120 it won't make hardly any difference appearance-wise, at least it doesn't on me. My waist size goes up an inch but that's it. As long as you're healthy you really shouldn't be worrying about gaining weight unless, of course, you simply want to look bigger.
If he breaks up with you just because you gain a few pounds for you're help, he's trash anyway. Just focus on being healthy! It a balanced diet. Don't force yourself to gain weight but don't starve yourself either.
Most guys like girls with a healthy weight. Don't worry 107-120lb looks good for your height. He'd probably enjoy the bigger breast and ass anyways.
3 months isn't serious enough to worry about them accepting change. And if can't be attracted to a healthier you, you deserve a better guy.
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85 would be vwry low. Not a health expert but 105 at 5'4 could be within some healthy range. As long as you are eating healthy your b/f will find you attractive, and you will feel less woried and. more confident. If he doeant like where. you are at than he may have unrealistic ideas about body shapes and sizes. You probably wouldn't want to be someone who is so so obsessed with your bodyweight anyhow (?) When we are obsessed with body weight it takes time and energy away from us developing other parts ourselves
I have kind of the same issue people say they like my small figure. Im pretty short and naturally skinny. Im perfectly healthy and my doctor told me she wants me to gain. Weight because im underweight. I feel like ill look weird
if he doesn't like you just because your body changes then he isn't worth you time. gaining weight will be healthy for you. if he doesn't like that or understand than he should kick rocks.
It's always better to be a healthy weight than underweight. And looking a healthy weight is more attractive than underweight.
i loled.
You can try going to the gym along with eating at a calorie surplus. Then when you look great, you can dump your shallow boyfriend
Sweetheart just to let u in on a little secret, most men dont want twigs. Put some meat on ya bones!
Its your body and if he only loves you because of body shape, then I
Would reconsider the relation.
so wot?
u should concern yer health not wot yer boyfriend wants basically!
Your health matters way more than what your boyfriend thinks of you. But I;m sure that he would still be attracted to you regardless.
Have you considered... being honest with him about this?
Your priority should be your health, that should also be his priority, he should support you.
your eating like a bird anyway, eat more
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