I'm being treated for major depression and I don't know what to do?

[Anonymous]

After 5 years of ongoing treatment for major depression. I've realized I have a crush on my nurse practitioner. We're both older. She's a bit younger than me. Still in great shape. Both physically and mentally. I really want to have a closer ongoing relationship. I see her every 90 days. I'd love to have her perform oral sex and vice versa. It could go even further. My sessions with her are an hour. Not only counseling, but she watches my body language and if I'm looking at her straight in the eye. Or evading from looking at her. I don't know how long I have to be treated. But I know it'll be at least another 5years. She's sort of coy. Maintaining her control, but opening up. Outside very professional. Inside, I think she's a little sex kitten. After years of education. I think she didn't have any time to explore and let go. She's married and has a stable marriage. This could be our sexual fantasies worked out. Our secret. Should I just go straight to the point and ask her. Or remain my sexual fantasy. And take care of it when I go home? Comments!

Yes.

No.

[JacquelineBuan]

Hey there, I hope your treatment does you good and that you'll feel better soon :)

.. noe time for real talk. Hope none of this offends you, I'm not trying to attack you in any way, I'm just trying to give good, honest advice.

First off, she's married. Secondly, has she shown any signs that she might be interested in you? You said you think she might be a "sex kitten". What makes you say that?

Okay, you probably won't want hear this, but this is coming from a student nurse who's always being told stories from other nurses about the various patients they take care of.

1. It would be very uprofessional of her to pursue any kind of sexual relationship of you- doing so could have her license revoked.
2. Perhaps you're confusing her care for you as affection? i'm sure she has formed some sort of friendly attachment to you, but unless she's shown some signs of being interested in you, that may be it.
3. Hollywood and various independent directors have given nurses an image- that we're secretly sex-craving deviants who will get naughty with you when no one's looking. Everyone please stop associating nurses with sex. You can fantasize about it, but please don't assume there's any truth behind the things you've seen on your risque sites. Goodness knows how often we're harrassed for choosing to be nurses.
4. Nursing is a very taxing, laborous job. Even if she wanted to get naughty, she simply wouldn't have the time or energy to do so.

Now, if you truly like her you can talk to her and ask how she feels. However if she doesn't return your affection, please continue to be polite to her, and settle with being nice friends :)

[JacquelineBuan]

*relationship with you. Sorry for the any spelling/grammar mistakes, they're easy to ignore when you're typing on your phone

[TrulyPink28]

Dear Anonymous

It's lovely that you have an awakened sexual appetite after months of being treated for severe depression. This is healthy and an indication that your treatment is working. Unfortunately, as you're probably aware, she is in a professional relationship with you. It is not abnormal for patients to fancy their main carer and vice versa however in order to maintain professionalism, it is either best that the patient (like yourself) tells their carer or their superior of your romantic intentions for her in order that she will be protected. Your current relationship will not be sustainable as you may find it difficult to remain emotionally detached. This may present as harsh and unfair but on the other hand, if you were not being treated by her, she was single and met her outside of the work context, it would be perfectly natural and permissible to be in relationship. As she is married, you have to respect that she may in fact be happy in her relationship and not be seeking to explore outside of the box. Have you considered meeting new people in your community and re-engaging with work or voluntary positions?

[Diego9O]

Don't tell her anything about it, what will happen is that they will change her for a next nurse because probably she will say something to her superiors. You can't expect to have a relationship under that circumstance. Keep with the fantasy but don't try to go beyond, and she is married, respect that.

[Anonymous]

www.girlsaskguys.com/.../q1478281-is-it-all-right-to-have-sex-with-you-cousin

Aren't you the same guy who wants to bang his cousin?

[HoneyButterCup525]

Do you know whats the real cure for dépression

Is to stop giving a SHIT.

I used to have major dépression and the only mericale pill for it is to stop giving a shit.

It did me wonders,

Plus im not being rude im being seriouse. You Can take all the pills and thearipy You want but not giving a shit pill is so Much more affective.

[itsallover]

So you want to have sex with both your cousin and your nurse?

[Anonymous]

Don't do this. If you do this then you'll probably get a new nurse practitioner..