this is kind of what my body looks like...
How come he thinks I'm so fat? Should I starve myself?
this is kind of what my body looks like...
That is nowhere near fat. She looks nice. Dump that faggot ass and get someone that's nicer. Bunch of bullshit and it's not right. And as an extra tip: never ever EVER starve yourself because it causes horrible things and it's miserable. I tried starving myself when I was really depressed a year and a half ago and it was no good or fun. I made myself constantly getting diarrhea, I felt weak and sick, I couldn't feel good and be in a good mood. They said I could've developed anorexia and that could've killed me
Thank you so much. I know my body is not perfect but I just don't understand why he cares so much to make me feel bad about it. I am thinking about telling him to leave me alone for good. I don't want someone around who just makes me feel bad about myself.
You're welcome. If you want to you can try to lose weight. But if you do, do it for you and not for anyone else. Start completely avoiding him and staying away. You don't have to settle for that or deal with that. Tell him to leave you alone for good and if he says anything, then you avoid him. He needs to be out of your life for good. And I understand. I don't think anyone does. I know I don't
NEVER starve yourself for someone else pleasure. You are beautiful the way you are. That body in the picture is really nice, and curvy. You are blessed if you have a body like that. This is from a not so curvy, petite girl. Embrace your curves, and find a different guy who will like you for YOU.
No never it would just make it worse for the first few months cause the little food u eat stay in your body but if u do intermediate fasting u eat in time periods every day start eating at 10 till 6 eat as much as u want in 8 hours and the food will prosses right and it works vary fast top trainers us it if u want u can shortan the window to 6 ,4 hours but I wouldn't go lover than 4 u can get an eating disorder. :)
I have read about this.. thanks for your answer! :)
Some guys do this to women to keep them from leaving them. They will make them feel like nobody will ever want them so they just stay with the same guy. Although you aren't dating, but maybe he's done this in the past with his gfs.
Other than this he seemed like such a nice guy and I really thought highly of him. You are probably right though.
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That's not fat and if he's your boyfriend then I say dump him because he wouldn't care what you look like, he would love you for who you are. If he's your friend then you shouldn't hang out with him if he's calling you fat, find a guy who is nice to you and not a jerk <3
I am starting to understand that he is not really my friend.. I have a hard time understanding men --_--
How should I tell him that I am not into his type of "friendship" anymore? I just want him to go away and leave me alone but I don't know how to say it without being mean :/
Maybe try saying "Hey, I don't think our friendship is going to last long if you're going to call me fat, so if you want to continue being friends then, you're going to have to accept me for who I am"
ok thanks!
No problem
If you are getting messages like that from your boyfriend, dump his nasty ass and get a nicer boyfriend.
You are right. Thank you :)
that's not fat. This girl is radiant, and she has curves. Yes, she technically COULD loose a few pounds.. but in no way is this fat.
Never ever ever ever ever starve yourself.. it does really shitty things to you. Please don't
I think you're fine. You're not fat at all.. you just have extra where some people don't have any. That's not BAD.
Thank you! :)
Should I just say, "Hey I don't think we can be friends can you please just leave me alone?" I don't want to be a hurtful person but I know I have to just tell him to leave me alone...
That sounds good to me. If he asks why, I would add that I would want people around who support me instead of belittle me. You're welcome. :)
Ok I'm going to say it to him. Thanks!
Why torture yourself with an arrogant asshole like that? Dump his sorry ass.
We are not really together. He is just like friend that likes to make me feel bad :/
Then he isn't a friend if he strives to make you feel bad. Distance yourself from him and save yourself the trouble.
He's got issues and he's a jerk. This body is super beautiful
You think so? :) Thanks!
People aren't stupid. You are delusional if you think your body resembles that pict when a guy think you are fat. Well unless he has such an amazing body, it doesn't explain that negative remark.
What do you think of her?
There is nothing wrong with her, infact that body shape is very desirable for many guys.
yeah but are her legs too big and her boobs too smalll?
I don't think that's fat. Maybe he just prefers a girl who has a smaller frame.
You definitely should not starve yourself especially if it's to please someone who has insulted you or anyone else in general. You should think about how you see yourself... Healthy or unhealthy? Whatever it is then you should respond in a matter that respects your body and doesn't cause damage.
NEVER STARVE YOURSELF!!! He is shallow and a jerk. Your body is curvy which is the ideal body shape. It is beatiful
I just feel horrible when I'm around him! Some other guy friends make me feel pretty but he makes me feel like I should not eat at all and that I'm horrible and fat. I literally feel guilty if I even think of eating whenever he is around... It's like I'm doing something illegal... I feel horrible about myself when he is around :( I wish he would just leave me alone because I hate myself when he is around. I have told him to leave me alone before it's like his full time job to make come around and make me feel bad? ugh
to come around^
that is horrible... get rid of him. This guy sounds toxic. I'm sure you are beautiful and have a lovely figure. But yes like i said get rid of him, surround yourself with positive people not negative trolls
Don't starve. It'll make your body look way worse. And that isn't bad, at all. If he really thinks that, either dump him or work out if you wanna stay with him. Starving is never the way to go. ... Though if I were you I'd dump him.
I don't want to stay with him honestly, I am just so confused as to why he see's me as this horribly fat person.. i don't know what to think. Thanks.
you have a nice body and he is just mean!!! a lot of guys like this body type
He is fucked in the head. Move on and find somebody that treats you properly. In 10 years he will become fat and trashy.
You are right
That's genetic. You can't change that without tampering with your genome. Looks fine to me, though.
I know.. I'm always going to be pear shaped even if I lose weight. He just makes me feel so ashamed of myself and like I look like a fat pig or something.. He told me I should get breast implants and lips suction just to look normal? I am so confused...
lipo suction*
I can... we are not together romantically. I am just confused why my supposed "friend" intends on making me feel this way when I am around him..
and thank you for thinking my body is ok the way it is :)!!
Girl no ! If your body looks like that be proud ! That's Beauty
she has a great body. her boobs are bigger then mine though, pretty smile. I could always fake boobs. ;p
I think you are crazy and if I was your boyfriend i'd be super worried about you and your health.
Her body is absolutely gorgeous! If I dated someone with that body and a good personality I'd be extremely happy.
Even though s s pear shaped? You find that attractive?
she*
Nothing wrong with being pear shaped. She is very attractive.
fuck him girl dont be starving yourself for no fuckboy, im sure you're gorgeous keep slaying :)
Thank you!
he's blind and no you shouldn't
Do you think her legs are a bit too full?
he actually told you that you were fat?
He always says I'm so fat and that he hates my body :/
Why does it matter what he says though? You said he's not your boyfriend.
Because I thought he was my friend... I don't know. I guess you are right. He isn't my friend when I think about it...
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