Doesgetting older and going to college and having new experiences get rid of negative thinking?

[Anonymous]

My only negative thinking is health, and surgical stuff and photos of doctors wearing surgical uniforms... I have repetive thinking about stuff I hear for the first time like endoscopy or catheter or stuff life that... too much thinking that sometime leads to thought of... I dont wanna say it coz the question will be removed, but I'm sure you understand, and if you don't. . your a bitch! Ah jk. .. anyways, will this negative sht go away if I get involved more and step in for life.. im turning 17 in 2 days wich is only 1 year left till being A dog... sorry I meant adult.. IL be honest.. im so wasting my life, that I get surprised when I take pictures or selfie of my self and smile and do weird angles I never done that before, I got way surprised of my face (positive way) this is me telling you how much I sit at home and on my phone and do nothing all day.. I am sure that I do not know what life is other then surgeries.. wich I am not having..

[cooookkiiee]

Yeah, just on your phone way too much. Get out and do other things. I went from a period of being super busy and never catching a break to literally being at home all day every on my phone and the computer and I felt like I over thought so many things that I was going to go insane. Don't sweat it, you will be fine. Just stay healthy and you won't need those surgeries. And yeah I think that college and new experiences doesn't necessarily get rid of negative thinking but it does't give you a chance to think about the stuff you are now because you will be occupied with school and activities and friends and bills. You might have negative thinking but it will be different and you will make friends to help you with it :)

[Asker]

That's true.. but what was your thinking about.. I dont think anyone thinks like me... don't you think of the medical stuff. .. I'm not even getting anything anytime soon.. im don't feel like anything anymore, I dont care about what to wear to school no more, I just go with the same clothes as everyday.. I dont have hope or anything for life... I just think way to much of surgeries endoscopy and these stuff... I've if I know that the mind creates a more fear of the real thing..

[bryon]

Negativity is a choice , a state of mind dude. The only way that will change is you do the changing. While maybe things that surround you annoy you it's how you react to them that define you and your emotional state

[Asker]

It's not the society that's making me negative. . it's the repetive thinking about surgery or stuff similar like edoscopy or catheter or something.. basically medical stuff..

[Asker]

I don't enjoy life no more.. I dont care what I dress up.. I go to school with same clothes and stuff.. I just don't feel like it no more

[bryon]

If your not happy doing what your doing now , it's time to change it. If you don't find your career rewarding it will be destined to fail , think about doing something that you don't dread doing

[Asker]

I love drawing... but I'm turning 17 in 2 days.. and I'm studying electric (division) in highschool

[Asker]

Tbh.. the thoughts aren't coming by a lot anymore and if it does. . im capable of just saying fuck it and think of something else worth it... so it just comes by.. and I can just do what I was