Is being plus sized really that bad as people portray it to be?

WELL IM not skinny and I see /hear all the time guys don't really see thicker women AS attractive as skinny women.. or thicker women are on thee bottom of the attractiveness scale. And like I said I'm not skinny so it makes me feel like being fat is soooo bad.. what's your opinion?
Is being plus sized really that bad as people portray it to be?
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