confidence and how a woman feels about herself matters even moreso. A skinny girl with no self confidence is just not attractive.
Magazines and runway models have created a sense of "pretty" that most men do not agree with... but as women are different so are men's tastes. if the woman takes care of herself, and has self pride, the rest will follow.
To me, as long as your face / hair / eyes / additionally voice are attractive, shape does not matter. I've been attracted to girls that were 120 lbs, and girls that were 190 lbs. As I said, it doesn't matter. To me, it doesn't, anyways. xD
But the catch is, your face CAN be messed up if you are overweight. And then you would not be attractive. Just don't look fat. Look overweight, max. :P
it's a bit of an old qestion dose weight matter, I think that if your happy in yourself, and healthy than your the right weight :) if you can run, sprint and swim your not to big :) but vice versa I wouldn't date a fat guy , so why would they date a fat girl, its pritty double standards to say guys judge.. but were the same
This is a good question. I am a young girl, a very fit girl as well. And I gained weight because I signed up for weight training (a work out kinda class) I wanted to get stronger lol . So I gained about 10 pounds in muscle. My thighs have gotten a ton stronger, but also a little bigger. now when I walk my thighs jiggle a little :) lol, but the boys make fun! I don't know what it is, I guess it depends on the person. because the boys I know are allll d***s. but to me, weight doesn't matter as long as they are healthy. :)
well in my opinion its not really weight that matter's its more do you look good at the weight you are at? if your 5''5' and 200lbs yea weight matters but! if your 5''5' and 115-130lbs yur good. and to skinny is nasty... so weight matters if your over or under weight!
It only matters if you make it a proble meaning you ither point it out to him a lot , cause if he didn't like your body now he wouldn't be with you...also it how you "work it" meaning your confedence.If you have that then men are way more drawn to you. Besides women judge way harsher then men.
for some guys weight does matter althought they will say it dosnt I for one am not that type of guy I for one look on how the person is are we compatible do we like the same things I don't care about the weith I care about the person but when someone in a rlationship states that have you put on weoght it could be a sign that there worried about you wellbeing and just want to know if you are doing OK for instance;
a girl having a stressful month at work eats ice cream every time after work so she gains a few pounds the boyfreind asked if they put ona a few lbs with a worried voice but most girls will imidiatly tatke it the worng way most girls don't sit their and think about what they said and the relation ship dosnt last
if girls understood guys a bit more then relationships would have a better shot and would last longer and be happier
Weight only matters to those men who look for a certain body type. So guys like girls thicker, some like them skin bony. I personally like girls that are skinnier (not bony) like an athletic build to some girls that are a little curvy. I draw the line at girls who look anorexic or who are overwhelmingly overweight. I basically look for a girl who is healthy. Its good genetics. Its a subconscious thing.
I'd like to believe its not. But that would be wishful thinking :/ I agree that we feel we will be judged if we don't look our best. Or THE best now- a -days. This ultimately puts pressure on us girls thinking that we will only become attractive to the opposite sex if we look good ( doesn't mean you have to be size 0 to look good) I genuinely think BEAUTY LIES SKIN DEEP; total cliche :/ but its true. Only thing is that because we are constantly being rated on looks that doesn't count initially, which is ashame :( but that's reality!. So I do think weight matters to mean initially but I believe that once you get to know someone that isn't necessarily the case. Remember inside every fat person there is a slim better looking person bursting to get out =]
I'm trim as heck because I have to diet. I'm diabetic. I take my health seriously and don't eat all kinds of crap.
I want a girl that does the same - pays attention to what she eats. I'm not inclined to get with a chick who's plumped out.
Women do the same - they DO judge by appearances. I don't see beautiful chicks arm in arm with fat guys. Why should they anyway? Don't go for less when you want more.
Ok, so I know you asked about a girl's weight, but I'm going to answer differently. Personally, I find Seth Rogen drop dead sexy and he is overweight. But at the same time, David Beckham could be my future baby daddy and he is crazy in-shape. I'm not attracted to just one body type, and it's something beyond weight that attracts me to a person. Honestly, I don't notice it when I'm looking, so I'm sure that a lot of guys out there are the same way
The digits aren't what matter because it all depends on height and your build to create that number. If you know how to dress yourself and can rock whatever body you have with confidence you are good to go ! All girls can be beautiful no matter what shape or size it is all how you put yourself on display.
I feel good about myself but if I can't dress the part then I feel isolated to a very small group of friends. The nice part is that everyone in my group is either a bit heavy or thin. So there is no back biting going on if one of the heavy gals wears a bikini top.
I think I'm in the majority and say yes, size does matter. There are a number of guys who don't care about such things though. if you're huge overweight or WAY too skinny, there are guys who will like you. If you want to appeal to the masses then yes, try to keep yourself a healthy size.
no hun I don't think so. I'm self consious about my weight too-not being overly fat, but being overly skinny. I'm tall and thin & I hate it! girls just think they have to look skinny because its the stereotype! but skinny girls like me wished they weighed more. so truth is, a lot of girls are insecure with their weight, even skinny girls. when really we should just all accept ourselves for who we are and stop worrying about our weight
weight really matters mostly if you are young like your age, but as you get older, weight is less of a concern to guys. There are plenty of guys out there that do not care as much about weight. You just have to find them.
Depends on the guy - myself, at 5'3" and 120lbs, have some men telling me I need to gain weight, others tell me I'm perfect and still others that say I could use a 'little toning'. It's personal preference.
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The bible says you are young find the man of your dreams. Weight dosn,t matter if a guy meets the girl you are and you are her. Because you are the one he dosnt notice. But if it matters to you and no matter if h is the right man he has to deal with it woe to that man..
It matters when you first meet a girl, but as you get to know them, personality trumps all. Afterall, appearance does not last forever.
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From a guy's POV who's started working out and losing weight, yeah it does. I expect my girls to look healthy and have a nice sexy flat tummy? why? cause soon I'm gonna have that too, it's not fair I'm working my butt off to look sexy while the girl does nothing.
in my opinion people with the same "fitness" level should date those of their level.
if someone is 210 pounds, overweight, and does nothing about it. he shouldn't expect to get with a slim sexy girl, its not fair to the girl or him.
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well yes and no.
confidence and how a woman feels about herself matters even moreso. A skinny girl with no self confidence is just not attractive.
Magazines and runway models have created a sense of "pretty" that most men do not agree with... but as women are different so are men's tastes. if the woman takes care of herself, and has self pride, the rest will follow.
To me, as long as your face / hair / eyes / additionally voice are attractive, shape does not matter. I've been attracted to girls that were 120 lbs, and girls that were 190 lbs. As I said, it doesn't matter. To me, it doesn't, anyways. xD
But the catch is, your face CAN be messed up if you are overweight. And then you would not be attractive. Just don't look fat. Look overweight, max. :P
it's a bit of an old qestion dose weight matter, I think that if your happy in yourself, and healthy than your the right weight :) if you can run, sprint and swim your not to big :) but vice versa I wouldn't date a fat guy , so why would they date a fat girl, its pritty double standards to say guys judge.. but were the same
This is a good question. I am a young girl, a very fit girl as well. And I gained weight because I signed up for weight training (a work out kinda class) I wanted to get stronger lol . So I gained about 10 pounds in muscle. My thighs have gotten a ton stronger, but also a little bigger. now when I walk my thighs jiggle a little :) lol, but the boys make fun! I don't know what it is, I guess it depends on the person. because the boys I know are allll d***s. but to me, weight doesn't matter as long as they are healthy. :)
well in my opinion its not really weight that matter's its more do you look good at the weight you are at? if your 5''5' and 200lbs yea weight matters but! if your 5''5' and 115-130lbs yur good. and to skinny is nasty... so weight matters if your over or under weight!
Thats fine. I cannot speak for every guy I think obese is not attractive,
Ok yeah obese isn't but curvey is sexy and toothpicks are repulsive! I rather have a girl with an hour glase figure than a toothpick anyday!
It only matters if you make it a proble meaning you ither point it out to him a lot , cause if he didn't like your body now he wouldn't be with you...also it how you "work it" meaning your confedence.If you have that then men are way more drawn to you. Besides women judge way harsher then men.
for some guys weight does matter althought they will say it dosnt I for one am not that type of guy I for one look on how the person is are we compatible do we like the same things I don't care about the weith I care about the person but when someone in a rlationship states that have you put on weoght it could be a sign that there worried about you wellbeing and just want to know if you are doing OK for instance;
a girl having a stressful month at work eats ice cream every time after work so she gains a few pounds the boyfreind asked if they put ona a few lbs with a worried voice but most girls will imidiatly tatke it the worng way most girls don't sit their and think about what they said and the relation ship dosnt last
if girls understood guys a bit more then relationships would have a better shot and would last longer and be happier
Weight only matters to those men who look for a certain body type. So guys like girls thicker, some like them skin bony. I personally like girls that are skinnier (not bony) like an athletic build to some girls that are a little curvy. I draw the line at girls who look anorexic or who are overwhelmingly overweight. I basically look for a girl who is healthy. Its good genetics. Its a subconscious thing.
I'd like to believe its not. But that would be wishful thinking :/ I agree that we feel we will be judged if we don't look our best. Or THE best now- a -days. This ultimately puts pressure on us girls thinking that we will only become attractive to the opposite sex if we look good ( doesn't mean you have to be size 0 to look good) I genuinely think BEAUTY LIES SKIN DEEP; total cliche :/ but its true. Only thing is that because we are constantly being rated on looks that doesn't count initially, which is ashame :( but that's reality!. So I do think weight matters to mean initially but I believe that once you get to know someone that isn't necessarily the case. Remember inside every fat person there is a slim better looking person bursting to get out =]
Yeah it does.
I'm trim as heck because I have to diet. I'm diabetic. I take my health seriously and don't eat all kinds of crap.
I want a girl that does the same - pays attention to what she eats. I'm not inclined to get with a chick who's plumped out.
Women do the same - they DO judge by appearances. I don't see beautiful chicks arm in arm with fat guys. Why should they anyway? Don't go for less when you want more.
Ok, so I know you asked about a girl's weight, but I'm going to answer differently. Personally, I find Seth Rogen drop dead sexy and he is overweight. But at the same time, David Beckham could be my future baby daddy and he is crazy in-shape. I'm not attracted to just one body type, and it's something beyond weight that attracts me to a person. Honestly, I don't notice it when I'm looking, so I'm sure that a lot of guys out there are the same way
The digits aren't what matter because it all depends on height and your build to create that number. If you know how to dress yourself and can rock whatever body you have with confidence you are good to go ! All girls can be beautiful no matter what shape or size it is all how you put yourself on display.
I feel good about myself but if I can't dress the part then I feel isolated to a very small group of friends. The nice part is that everyone in my group is either a bit heavy or thin. So there is no back biting going on if one of the heavy gals wears a bikini top.
I think I'm in the majority and say yes, size does matter. There are a number of guys who don't care about such things though. if you're huge overweight or WAY too skinny, there are guys who will like you. If you want to appeal to the masses then yes, try to keep yourself a healthy size.
no hun I don't think so. I'm self consious about my weight too-not being overly fat, but being overly skinny. I'm tall and thin & I hate it! girls just think they have to look skinny because its the stereotype! but skinny girls like me wished they weighed more. so truth is, a lot of girls are insecure with their weight, even skinny girls. when really we should just all accept ourselves for who we are and stop worrying about our weight
weight really matters mostly if you are young like your age, but as you get older, weight is less of a concern to guys. There are plenty of guys out there that do not care as much about weight. You just have to find them.
Depends on the guy - myself, at 5'3" and 120lbs, have some men telling me I need to gain weight, others tell me I'm perfect and still others that say I could use a 'little toning'. It's personal preference.
The bible says you are young find the man of your dreams. Weight dosn,t matter if a guy meets the girl you are and you are her. Because you are the one he dosnt notice. But if it matters to you and no matter if h is the right man he has to deal with it woe to that man..
It matters when you first meet a girl, but as you get to know them, personality trumps all. Afterall, appearance does not last forever.
From a guy's POV who's started working out and losing weight, yeah it does. I expect my girls to look healthy and have a nice sexy flat tummy? why? cause soon I'm gonna have that too, it's not fair I'm working my butt off to look sexy while the girl does nothing.
in my opinion people with the same "fitness" level should date those of their level.
if someone is 210 pounds, overweight, and does nothing about it. he shouldn't expect to get with a slim sexy girl, its not fair to the girl or him.