Is my body holding me back?

[kkkatiemac]

i have a guy friend that I flirt with all of the time. I feel like he has the potential to like me but if my height and weight holding me back?

he's two inches shorter than me and pretty skinny compared to me.

he's said more than once that we could have sex a couple times, do you think he's being serious or just being stupid?

i was just wondering if things like that matter when it comes to guys getting it in

[Anonymous]

I think you should work on your confidence. I can tell that you are insecure about your body so you should work on that. It is true, that being a little chubby can hold you back from dating options. But this guy doesn't seem like a prize anyway. He is a friend who has no problem flirting with you, and told you that you could have "sex a couple times" but it doesn't seem like he likes you, he just sees you as a sex option. He most likely would have sex with you if given the opportunity but I doubt he has any real feelings for you.

[PredictablePen]

i think you need to be careful in this situation. it almost sounds like he's using u. him talking about sex before being with you is never really a good sign. shows his priorities might not be where you want them

[KERMlT]

I prefer to be the skinny one in the relationship. Curvy women make great lovers for many reasons I will not go into. Your height and weight wouldn't hold me back, but the age difference would.

[snackeyg]

No one would mention sex if they didn't want it with that person. Unless they're unusually cruel. And your body looks fine to me for a bigger girl. Sorry if it sounded mean saying bigger.

[kkkatiemac]

It's okay, and thanks! yeah I don't think he would bring it up if he didn't want to right? he told me that we've have chances before, but it just never happened, I don't know if it was because he was horny and would do it with anyone, or if he really wanted to have sex with me.

[snackeyg]

No one just gets that horny. lol He wanted it from you.

[kkkatiemac]

Lol true, thanks hun! :)

[rikooprate]

I get that horny! lol But they have to meet a certain criteria. I'm not sayin, I'm just sayin...

[kkkatiemac]

Yeah that's what I thought. but I mean he has to find me at least SOMEWHAT attractive to screw me right? or is that something that guys can just block out entirely?

[snackeyg]

Still you have criteria. So you're you're not banging a fugly girl because you're horny.

[snackeyg]

Well if he turns out to a d-bag I'll do it for him. :P *sigh* the desperateness of a virgin. Not saying desperate cause of your looks btw.

[kkkatiemac]

Haha yeah I understand you. I mean I don't think I'm ugly. I just don't feel good enough for him :/

[darkknight1x]

Don't worry you look good. Most of us don't have hang-ups about height and your weight is fine.