Well your boyfriend was right to be opposed to a breast reduction... I mean honestly b cups are like perfect. And if you got them reduced you would be like practically flat.
Try not to think so negatively about yourself. It's definitely easy to do and we all have moments where we doubt ourselves, or think we're not good enough, or think that a part of body is just terrible.
But you need to cast all that aside and have some faith in yourself and in your body. If your boyfriend thinks you look fine, well, chances are you do then! He can see how beautiful you are, and so you should try to do the same. I'm not saying it's something that you can do quickly and be satisfied with; often such low self-esteem can be hard to raise. But really, try to find time to appreciate yourself and who you are each day, and hopefully after a while you'll be able to build up your confidence.
Good luck to you!
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Honestly, do what you feel is right for you. Consider if it's really what you want. I recommend trying to get them down naturally then surgically. If your chest size truly stops you from being comfortable in your own body then do what you need to do. If your boyfriend throws a fit, well, he's clearly putting his needs before yours, assuming you've told him why you want to do it.
Really though, I'm a b and I'd be happy to have a bigger chest. but to each their own =] just really try to think it over.
1. Don't look at yourself through other people's (there are >6 billion on Earth) eyes; that is the fastest way to throw your happiness out of the window, all of it.
"I want to please him, but its tearing me apart"
2. A mature person knows that one's happiness is one's responsibility, and no one else's. Meaning, you are responsible for YOUR happiness, not his. Vice versa.
Yeah I thought the same thing about my penis, it was just too damn big.
It just got in the way, you don't know how embarrassing it is to always be accused of shoplifting.
"no I don't have anything down my pants, I swear!"
So yeah I can understand your need for a breast reduction. They just get in the way, you know.
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He just wants your t*ts. Sorry I may be wrong but that's what it sounds like. And you don't want big boobs?
get therapy. it sounds like you have a distorted body image.
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