I lost some weight and now he's not really into me?

[Anonymous]

I lost like 50 lbs in the last year. Needless to say, I look totally different. Lately, my boyfriend hasn't really been into me. He's made comments about "don't get too skinny" and "You think you've lost enough already?" and I don't know what to do.

[pandaninja]

well this depends on too many variables you havn't told us for example if you were both overweight and you started shreading pounds but not him he could just feel like he is being left inf the dust and his complaints come from the insicurity of you finding a "better" (more physically attractive man), on the other hand if you were only abit over and have gotten too skinny his concern could be for your health out of fear that you are turning anorexic or bulemic. could you tell us more about the situation so we can better understand it?

[Longshot]

I have seen this before where the guy is afraid you'll look too good or better than he does. However your health comes first and losing weight if were overweight to start with is always good.

[Anonymous]

some guys are into bigger girls. congrats on your weight loss anyway. its YOUR body that you have to live in. if your boyfriend doesn't like it then tough. he's not the one who had to deal with thighs rubbing together, not wearing the cute clothes you wanted to, risk for diabetes and high blood pressure, etc. if he can't accept your body you might wanna find someone who does

[toulouse]

Were you overweight to begin with- is he overweight?

Are you underweight now?

Are you healthy?

Has your personality changed?

[Anonymous]

ewww chubby chaser. how can he lose interest in you for getting into shape?

hes mad because he's scared you'll lok good and have guys after you, he's probably the jealous type. if he doesn't straighten out then he's an ass and he just wants to bring you down. be like "dont hate me cause I'm beautiful" !

[toulouse]

Maybe she wasn't overweight to begin with..

[Opinion Owner]

How can you lose 50 lbs and not be overweight to begin with? I'm not overweight and I don't even have 50lbs to lose id literally be dead

[kidaphon]

We need more guys like your boyfriend to sponge off the fatty female population so the rest of the guys can be stuck with the better model-like quality specimens. But seriously, if he's put off by skinny girls, its just his preference.

[snackeyg]

He'll get over it if he really cares for you. How skinny are you?