My fiance got another girl pregnant, don't know what to do?

[elizabeth1979]

I am going to get married with my boyfriend, but I discovered he was cheating on me with another girl, he also got her pregnant, but I also discover he toll her to have and abortion, and she did have an abortion because she was pushing her to do it saying it was the best. But also a friend told me that this girl did it for some medical issues that could affect her health. The girl did not knew he was with me, he told to her he was single and wanted to share with her. After the abortion he dumped her..I really don't know what to do...

[Anonymous]

You are still considering marriage with his guy? I would take this whole situation a sign. Your pretty lucky. Not everyone gets such clear signs before entering a marriage. Move on and find someone who isn't cheating and knocking other women up. Love yourself enough to know that you deserve that!

[Anonymous]

Is this a joke question?

What are you, an idiot?

this is a joke right?

do you have a preschool education? because I'm sure if you did you would be able to answer this question

...seriously!?!

[martyfellow]

He's a litar on several levels, lied to this woman, to you, who knows where it stops?

Isn't it clear you've seen him for the LAST time?

[elizabeth1979]

he told me he was sorry, and that he blocked that girl away from his life, and that he will never do it again, I received an email from this girl, telling me everything he did and she feel very sorry for me, because he lie to me and played to her...Our wedding things are all prepared , even our apartment.., I don't know if giving him an another opportunity, we have been together for many years, and our family are so close too...

[martyfellow]

sorry, I didn't know all of that. But I still don't know if you can trust him again after such an imbroglio

[DJKlaasJan]

get pregnant by another guy so you would be equal and he also wouldn't know what to do lol

[MikeVick4MVP]

so I'm guessing if you get pregnent he's going to force you to get an abortion...that's just my opinion

[elizabeth1979]

he said he loved me to much and don't want to loose me, he told me he will never ask me for an abortion because he love me, he didn't loved the other girl ,it just was sex...it the first time I know he have cheated on me..

[MikeVick4MVP]

if he loved you then why would he cheat, I don't know from my experience once a cheater always a cheater..i think you deserve someone who would NEVER cheat on you

[YouKnowThatGuy]

Drop him, immediately. Shortest post I ever made on this site.

[Anonymous]

meh he's just a man fighting his urge to spread his seed... you are kinda old...ish... so best to get married

[tstdude21]

He cheated on you. Dump him.

[Trihill]

call it off