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Can going to the gym help you get a girlfriend? (Page 3)
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Only if you can make money by going to the gym. Women only care about money and dlck size.
It probably increases your chances by having a fitter or more muscly body and will probably give you more confidence.
But it doesn't guarantee you one or anything.
Since women are Into looks... f*cking YEEEESSSSSSS. Obviously
I was going to the gym and it didn't help me get a girlfriend all those years, because of Covid, I bought equipment and I now workout at home.
Working out can increase confidence, and confidence is essential for dating. So indirectly it can boost the chances with women.
One that only cares about what you look like physically
It makes the biggest difference out of anything you could possibly do besides getting rich.
Yes to an extent. In general attractive people have better chances. You also can use minimal make up, and with better hair styles to get more make up
**to get more attractive
Makeup as in hair gel?
Google k-pop male make up. Male K-pop idols have ton of female although they look very feminine
If you don't have an handsome face, which I myself don't, I don't think it would make a difference.
Doing anything with the goal of having a "girlfriend" is the wrong reason.
To me it’s very important to get a guy with health and sexy body, so only athletic guys attract me
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I don't understand why you're getting downvotes, this is like so obvious. Athletic guys are hot af
@navyrobin they’re jealous because i said i never date regular guys and their feelings got hurt😂
Seriously everyone knows that girls go crazy for those types of men and only few dislike them. 👍🏻
If there's one thing I've learned about this site, is that opinions on G@G are outweighed by reality. Not every girl will go after the same thing just like not every guy will go after the same thing.
We are humans and we have our differences. I like muscular men while my mom hates them and she view them as scary men. I like tall men while a friend likes someone around her height because being with tall would be awkward for her. Point is my opinions are the same here or outside this site, but of course some tell the opposite of their reality. :)
But you made it seem like every single girl or guy on the planet go after the same thing. I get it, we're organic robots. We're programmed and hardwired a certain way. But preferences will always be subjective
First I was speaking about myself because I know what attract me in a guy besides his personality otherwise I will not bother. Then I was speaking from a girl’s view that it’s true that the majority of us go after guys with some muscles since it’s a turn on. Then again there are girls like my mom who doesn’t like those types. I guess I didn’t put the correct words to form it in a correct way.🙄
Yeah you didn't
@Asker Most women find athletic guys attractive. It doesn’t mean we’ll always date them exclusively tho
@navyrobin I know. But girls don't exclusively just date athletic guys is what i was saying.
If they don’t have a choice they won’t but if they can choose between an athletic hot guy versus a fat slob they’ll choose the hot guy any day
@navyrobin There's a lot of girls that do date guys who are overweight. I only asked if i should go to the gym more so to help with my confidence. And again your words vs reality. I see the opposite of what you say. Sure a lot of girls like muscles or abs. But that doesn't mean they won't date a guy for not having those traits. Are you personally repulsed by overweight guys? You seem to have some hostility towards them
@Asker I know a lot of girls date overweight guys (and a lot of guys date overweight girls) but trust me it's not the majority. Most women don't want an overweight guy, it's not hostility, it's just basic physical attraction. This is an important part of any relationship. I wouldn't want to have sex with an overweight guy.
@navyrobin Again there are 8 billion people in this world. There's still quite a number or handful that would. I get we're robots to a certain extent. We're programmed a certain way but not everyone abides by the rules. And well yeah you wouldn't. But again there are still a few which is still a lot considering again the billions of people on earth that would
@Asker I in no way said every single woman behaved in the same way. So I don't understand why you're arguing. I only said that most women would prefer a hot guy over a fat slob any day, that's basic common sense lol
@navyrobin Don't have anything against overweight guys but calls them fat slobs 😂. Looks are subjective anyway right? What you find hot, there are girls that wouldn't think so
@Asker They are, but that doesn’t mean I have hatred them. It’s just gross, and most girls are definitely more attracted to athletic guys. Do you see male models who are obese? Exactly.
@navyrobin Again looks are subjective. There are women that find overweight guys attractive. It's like you want all women to have the same preferences as you lol. There's a lot of girls that don't care for abs or athletic builds. Let me hear your rebuttal
@Asker I'm not saying all women think in the same way, you don't listen to what I'm trying to tell you. I know not all women will always choose the hot guy over the fat guy, but most absolutely will. I would choose someone healthy and good-looking over someone who clearly doesn't take care of himself if they both had similar personalities. It's called biology, the basics of attraction, it's evolution. It's not something I'm making up out of thin air and it's not that I want all women to think the way I do..
It's just the way it is. I don't understand why you're being so defensive.
@navyrobin Not being defensive. Again i know we're organic robots and our brains are programmed a certain way. But the preferences aren't universal despite how big biology plays a part
@Asker Lmao for the 50th time, I know not all women will always choose the hot guy but most will. there’s a reason why certain people are labeled as “hot” or “attractive”. It’s common sense.
And yes you are being a bit defensive. Straight women like guys who take care of themselves and are healthy looking. I think men also like that about women.
@navyrobin Alright most people do. Not being defensive at all but there are a rare few who would be attracted to other things. But then again there are people that say love is just a chemical reaction in the brain. And Added that its a trick that compels animal to breed. So yeah i would doubt what you say. We're animals looking for the best mates possible. All because of that chemical reaction that so many people call love but can also just be infatuation
@Asker That chemical reaction is a response from an outside stimulus. In this case, women see a guy and if they find him attractive that is what happens. I don’t see how hard this is to understand. Are you a fat guy or are you just denying something so obvious for other reasons?
It’s true that a few women would probably choose a fat guy but most wouldn’t. It’s not rocket science. That is how it is in the world. There’s literally no point in “doubting” something that already happens. I mean even if you say that, it’s still the truth. Whether you like it or not 🤷♀️
@Asker There’s a reason why guys go to the gym 😂 to get buff and to attract women
@navyrobin They don't do it to attract women though. And if they are, they honestly should be doing it for themselves. I'm not overweight just skinny. But i do have sympathy for people
@navyrobin And this has sparked a new question i want to ask
It definitely helped my confidence but the bitches at the gym don't wanna talk to nobody
Not only can it help you get one, it can help you get a BETTER one!
You're confidence is the No.1 thing you need to increase pal.
Yeah of course. It makes you a lot more fit and physically attractive ☺️
I'm doing it for women then
If you're dating to get laid everyday, yea sure
Not my main goal but thanks anyway
Yes and It can do wonders for your confidence
Thanks. Im using them as my motivation to keep improving and raise my value
only if it improves your confidence in yourself.
No, that depends on so much more
Sure, of course it can