I dont care what they eat as long as they dont expect me to eat everything they eat. He can eat junk food daily as long as he is still willing to exercise it off sometime that week haha. I’m more focused on if they smoke or drink rather than the food going into their gut. Also, a pet peeve is expecting me to makeout with you right after you just ate. I refused to kiss my exes for some hours after they ate things that contained condiments like mayo, salad dressing, honey mustard, mustard, ketchup, tuna, salt/vinegar and pickles. Lmao i just can’t. I really rather not throwup on you 🤣 #FeelFreeToList
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I dont consider fast food the same as junk food. I’m saying if he wanted to snack on chips and little debbie cakes before each meal then i’m fine with that. Like someone said, its fine long as he's balancing out his meals and exercising on occasion
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Yea i wasn't saying he had bad breath. Im saying i dont like the tastes of those foods and won't kiss someone who just ate those 🤣
Do you care what your partner eats or are you more focused on their overall health/appearance?
Great question, and to be honest, I guess I don't really care what they eat as long as they look good. I say this because I have a real life example of a girl I dated. She ate totally unhealthy and actually made a point that she hated exercise, played no sports, didn't even really go walking anywhere. But she had a wonderful looking body, not super lean with six pack abs or anything, but slim and with curves.
not her, but similar BMI
I DO care if they smoke cigarettes as I find that really unpleasant. I was actually thinking about this girl I met a while back who smoked and she was cute and nice so I thought I could deal with it, but she smoked a cigarette a few minutes before kissing me (or trying to) and I practically gagged. I couldn't handle it, and stopped seeing her (although I didn't tell her it was about the smoking, I just semi-ghosted).
I've never really been put off by garlic or other strong foods. Even if someone gets bad breath or eats something stinky, it's very temporary. If it affected their body smell it would be a big deal. There was another girl who had a stinky vagina but I have no idea why, all I know is it was like the smoking girl. I found a way out of the situation and didn't really tell her why, I was too concerned about embarrassing her.
I forgot to add the girl who ate unhealthy got fat. She went from looking like the 25% BMI girl to somewhere between the 40% and 45% BMI girls in this picture:
That's wild I had a second look at your list, you just eliminated pretty much the major condiments. You don't put anything on burger and fries or sandwiches?
@DizzyDesii yeah I get not kissing with a mouth full of food, but in my experience we are usually eating the same thing so whatever flavor is lingering in my mouth is similar in hers so it hasn't bugged me in the past. Sounds like you'd be a good girl to keep some gum around with if a boy wants to get close. ;)
@Jamie05rhs yeah I agree no surprise, and I tried to get her to eat healthy and exercise, but when I broke up with her she went downhill the following years.
Its not that. As a kid, i had a bestie named mason who had bad manners with condiments. Its scarred me for life lol. I just feel that if a guys going yo eat those tthings, dont kiss me til we get back home and youve brushed and rinsed your whole mouth out. Its not just the smell, its the taste and thought of kissing where certain foods i hate just entered lol
Nothing wrong with wilding out sometimes aslong it's nothing to a point she is binging every day. I would say something in a very polite way lol baby uuuuu OHHHH K please step away from F.. king bacon it's for your own good I'm here to help baby girl 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣... no but for real I have no problem with a female that loves here foods I been with a vegetarian chick before I like working out I swear I was in the best shape ever with out even planing it 😂😂😂 because we lived together and she did the food shopping I ate steak like once a month lol!! Holy shit that was 15 years ago wow 😂 ... Great question girl damn u just reminded me of a past I totally forgot about lol
My wife and I don't tell each other what to do. When it comes to food, she's pickier than I am. She's very health conscious. I have a good metabolism, so I'm less picky.
Neither of us eats fast food because it's not even food and we despise the corporate cultures of those franchises. OK, once in a while I'll get a Subway tuna sandwich if I'm out and about and hungry.
My wife cooks healthy dinners on evenings when she's home. We eat organic or farm-fresh food as much as possible. We're fortunate to live in an area where a lot of good stuff is available.
We don't want to eat GMOs or toxic chemicals. But we're not health Nazis about it. Sometimes we just eat food that tastes good.
I said I'm not a food Nazi. LOL Now that I think about it, on very rare occasions I'd get a Taco Bell burrito or a McDonalds filet of fish sandwich, or very, very rarely, a Der Wienerschntzel chili cheese dog. But I never get fast food burgers except for In'n'Out. My wife and I actually like their burgers and fries because they are made out of real meat, bread and potatoes. No pink slime or chemicals.
I'm lucky to live in an area where there small businesses with great food, so I only eat corporate garbage when I'm on the road, starving, and there's nothing else around.
I'm not really like adamant about that but I know how I met my significant other I know how pretty she is I know her body looks like something's going to change with age I expect them to be a little bit responsible about what they eat I work out a lot my metabolism is how I know everybody's not built the same but I wouldn't want them to just like stop caring and eating and go from weighing 140 to 250 and like one year and expect me not to say anything I don't want to control them they can do what they want to do but I'm going to say something and if things don't change then I will do something if you know what I mean
I mean what can I say if she likes Oreos and Oreos are making her gain weight what do I say hey you eat too many Oreos without telling her she's fat you really can't say anything you could try to take them to go and work out with you at the gym or you can take them on walks in the neighborhood it's going to be a lot of walking but there's really no good way to approach that because 90% of the time when people notice that they're getting fatter or gaining weight it's in the early stages and so subconsciously they think that they're staying at that I'm just getting a little weight stage when in our reality they were getting a hundred pounds and it's never too late to change that but the want to has to be there also and then the gaining weight thing just keeps on going on and on and on and on and never stops until that particular person wants to stop it you know what I'm saying how long is one willing to sit around even if you love them and watch them kill themselves cuz initially that's what's going to happen or ultimately should I say
I hope she's okay with not eating tree nuts. I am highly allergic and would be hospitalized. If she's a vegan I'd only ask she TRY to eat some meat while she was carrying our child and breastfeeding. But other than that I dont care. I'm fine with her eating any diet as long as it's predominantly whole foods. Like 2 or maybe even 3 cheat days a month is not a big deal. But I'm trying to get in shape and also I want my baby to live as long as possible... :(
it's an anti-depressant. However I'm growing out of the need to depend on it. So I just want to taper off. That said it can be a hard thing to do so I need someone around who can watch me as prescribed by the doctor. I need me a good woman lol
I’m not a biggie on diet but I do have certain preferences, that he avoids pork meat or at least pork intestines if he dates me and that he not have any allergies so cooking will be easier but I think if I had a husband, I would love him too much to choose diet over the man. I might avoid foods he can’t eat rather than replacing him with a guy who eats what I eat.
I’m vegetarian. It’s a deal breaker. I only date vegan and veg head women. If you’re a meat head women we can be acquaintences but you’ll only be able to dream about dating me if it’s necessary for you to have animals murdered for your taste in protein when you get more and better from spinach etc…
Basically everything you literally listed, I don't care what she wants to eat as long she isn't expecting me to eat it as well. I also want the both of us to at least exercise and stay fit and healthy, let not either of us get fat and really unhealthy.
Sounds good. I need to get back to my 30 mins a day. But i miss those teen years where i could exercise 3 hours a day and not get exhausted. Plus i could eat whatever and never gain weight
I have only been doing certain cardio at the moment, I would like to now continue walking. Even sense this whole pandemic started I mainly go out walking and trying to do cardio and yoga. I been thinking of doing weight too, but I don't know yet, I been entirely busy.
If i can get some good shoes, i’d definitely start walking again once the mosquitoes die down. But most shoes i have are converse or nikes/jordans and theyre not meant to exercise in
I would leave her pretty free. Okay, if she'd continue to gain weight and start to look like a tractor I'd probably suggest considering a change. I would avoid hijacking her life by pushing too hard. If she would have remarks I'd also be open to taking them into account, but without throwing everything upside down.
It would bother me if they ate fast food 24/7 because of the unhealthy lifestyle, it would definitely affect their health - also, I know I would be affected to live unhealthier, that's just how I am. That's what happened with my first boyfriend (I gained 14 kg), so now I know I have to be mindful.
I would also care if they expected me to follow their diet or if they ate something that smelled a lot or I don't like the taste of it and they want to kiss straight after.
Not that much, we eat almost the same and i am the chef. Everything is made from scratch, all foods we make. We have our garden with all the veggies, fruits and spices. If we eat stanky food, we both brush our teeth after 15 minutes. No problems there
I love them. They are an extension of me, support, rock.. Of course I care about every bit of them. It’s a fine line though. We don’t own those we love. We can only kindly make suggestions and offers. Love is a balancing act.
A big thing for me is health so yes I would care I will completely change her diet i’ll cook and buy groceries and everything. Teach her about moderation and how weight gain/ weight loss works.
I'm not nitty gritty about what they eat specifically, just as long as there's not too much of it. I want a fit and healthy girl to match my own active lifestyle. How about you Desi? Active or couch potato?
Good, now then; "13. Who's the one person you'd like to have sex with, but can't for some reason? Lol this is a setup 🤣 i almost confessed" Who is it? ;P I seem to recall one male gager you really thought highly of though I don't remember the username.
I love to eat a vegetarian diet and I always looking for a healthy diet for everyone I love. I didn't compromise with health and hate those junk street foods.
Not really. But whoever cooks the meal, the other eats it or goes without. House rules, mutually agreed upon. From my heavy winter dinners, to her home made pizzas.
Yeap so if I'm doing the cookibg, it'll be a proper healthier meal and she can either eat it or not eat lol or if she wants some greasy ass nachos for dinner and makes it for us, I'll have to suck up the heart disease and eat it lol
Not really, as long as she stays healthy. I'm also more about the smoking. Don't really like the taste, when making out. I brush my teeth after I eat, so I expect at least not to taste her whole meal or cigarettes when we kiss.
Yea i wouldn't even date a smoker again. And yea i would prefer they brush after they eat but im referring to like, going out for dinner then they try to kiss you on the ride home
Like you can see the food in his teeth but dont know how to tell him and he's tryna kiss you 🤣 And yea the only time i smell like smoke is when i go to the casino because theyre not smoke free. So i have to wash my hair soon as i get hime
Crap i forgot you said that! you're so lucky. I've been trying to get a casino manager position but the ones here are strict af and want us to work as a table dealer first.
I got it pretty good here. Before I started, they had problems with employees stealing a bit. When my friend became a manager he asked if u could work here, because he needssž someone he can trust.
understood from my perspective i understand yours can't say i agree with it but to me a relationship involves 2 people now it's your choice to do what ya want but if it's gonna be taken to the point of disregardin how the man feels then i think that's wrong i think ya can do it but i think you'll just burn bridges unnecessarily as a result and that's up to you now i care more about bad habits than the food someone eats but simutaneously what ya eat is so important if ya eat the wrong things it can actually affect ya sexually through sexual contact so that's different things to think about
It would definitely be an issue if I want to commit more seriously with this person, because I don't want to marry a man who eats junk food daily or someone who's too picky about their food.
I kinda do, cause Of their health, they can’t eat gluten or dairy, alergic to birch pollen (apples , pears , cherries) and are vegetarian….. it took me a lot to convince them not to go vegan. Mostly I don’t care, but it is a pain the ass every now and then.
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