Why are counselors and theerapistand psychologist so judgementalwhenthey claim to not be judgmental?

There hypocrites

They claim ADHD and Autistic People have "abnormal behaviors" and they should hide them or stop doing them.

But then they dont judge neurotypicals for there atypical or eccentric behavior.

They always seem to see the diagnosis before the person, diagnosis before feelings or opinions. Like an autistic person opinion must be a autistic meltdown or a faulty thinking

and bipolar girl frustration must be the bipolar, and she didn't manage her bipolar well enough
Why are counselors and theerapistand psychologist so judgementalwhenthey claim to not be judgmental?
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