Which is more embarrassing men that can't produce children due to his infertility or women that can't get pregnant due to her infertility and why lol?

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

[meetkitty123]

From an outsider looking in and weighing in and having thoughts about an individual suffering from infertility embarrassing is the last word I'd ever consider using. I would feel emphatic for them.

If you are referring to being the individual who cannot conceive and they "feeling" embarrassed I wouldn't say either gender would feel this more than the other or less than the other.

If I was a person who couldn't conceive embarrassed wouldn't be what I would be feeling. I would feel heartbroken not embarrassed.

I would be left with longing not embarrassed...

And as for any individual who would feel embarrassed for a person suffering from infertility I would say they themselves are an embarrassment and ought to be ashamed out themselves.

It's immature idiotic and tactless to feel "embarrassed" for someone who cannot conceive.

Being capable of conceiving isn't something to brag about or feel like you're a golden trophy any individual can be capable of conceiving it doesn't make them better than anyone else nor does it even mean that they should conceive.

There's plenty of dumb people out who conceive out of pure stupidity and certainly do not deserve parenthood.

[meetkitty123]

I would feel empathy for them.

[EmmaMary]

Although it's embarrassing for both, it's only natural that for a woman to be unable to conceive would far outweigh the other.

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

Why is it natural for a woman to be unable to conceive?

Can you clear things up a bit?

[EmmaMary]

@Hispanic-Cool-Guy

I suggest you read my comment more thoroughly.

[EmmaMary]

Thank you for the MHO.

[YesterdaysChild]

@EmmaMary Isn't it true that when there is an AI Bot choice shown that it means the OP did not chose MHO?

[EmmaMary]

@YesterdaysChild

Correct.

[inhua]

not sure if "embarrassing" is the right word but if one side had to be more embarrassed than the other there's a case for both genders to be embarrassed

for men, it's because men are suppose to be able to sire offspring until the day they die due to unlimited sperm. women can't give birth after menopause which could be many decades before she dies of old age

for women, it's because humanity has far more female ancestors than male ancestors and she now becomes a part of the statistics of women who couldn't give birth though most men couldn't give birth not because of infertility but death, disposability and women's natural eugenics

[Lionman95]

I don´t think it´s embarrassing because both could be a question of genetics. People are born infertile and can´t do a thing about it. It might be embarrassing for them personally but it´s nothing to make fun of.

I think it´s a question of manners to respect them as they are. It could also be a strength for them and society. It just gets to be a problem when they are the majority.

[Lionman95]

Thanks for the MHO

[YesterdaysChild]

This is weird. 90% of women don't want to get pregnant when having sex as they get pregnant the first time. And the same goes for guys for causing a pregnancy. Yet when you want to get pregnant to have a kid you strike out without costly remedies. There ought to be a law.

[Cb142]

or the ones that dont want and deserve kids can't have them and ones that dont need them have then

[Guardian45]

Anyone who is denied the ability to have children suffers something worse than embarrassment.

Imagine never being able to see the birth of, hold, raise, watch and celebrate your child.

It's a humiliating sadness and a deep sense of loss and lack of fulfillment and completeness.

Parents are truly blessed.

[236color]

Neither is embarrassing. There are 8 billion people in the world. If the human race doesn't survive, it will not be because we didn't have enough kids.

[CrimsonAngel09]

Neither is embarrassing. People can't fucking help it how their body developed as they grew older.

[provokeesmokee]

Neither are embarassing, they're just things that happen sometimes because human bodies are simultaneously miracles AND bullshit.

[AviatorTom]

I wouldn't use the term "embarrassed". It's difficult for both partners when they want to conceive and can't. Genetic counseling can often help. And adoption is always an option.

[Jazzy54]

Embarrassment is not the word. No one should feel shame (or be shamed) for not being able to reproduce. So many people want children that can’t and it’s sad.

[goaded]

Why would it be embarrassing? Unfortunate, maybe sad, but it's just one of those things (even if you'd experienced a particularly unfortunate accident).

[Jonnyanalog]

It’s not embarrassing at all. We all have challenges in life and can find ways to overcome them.

[BoopBoopBeep]

I'd be quite happy to find out I was sterile.

[Stoner710]

Women given that the reason women exist

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

LOL.. What men exist for?

[Stoner710]

Taking care of the mother of their children financially physically and spiritually. It is an equal partnership but men have their roles and women have their roles.

[WhiteBoyChill]

How’s it any different? And how’s it embarrassing either for that matter?

[msc545]

Why does anyone need to be embarassed? Shit happen.

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

Because if you're a man it means your sprem is trash and if you're a woman it means your body doesn't produce the genetic line to produce and birth children.

[msc545]

Some sperm should not fertilize eggs, and some genetic traits like ALS and other diseases should not be passed on.

There is no shame in this at all.

[Snakeyes7]

I think it depends on why they don't have this ability.

[Anonymous]

Neither are embarrassing.

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

I think it is.

[Opinion Owner]

I don't find it embarrassing. Especially in today's world when less and less people want kids.