Several men have been complaining about not wanting to commit anymore, how it's a trap, about kids being major responsibilities and don't want to be baby-trapped... so why won't most of those men be happy if they got told he'll never be able to get a woman pregnant?
Ironically if their option of fathering a child would be taken away permanently, not many would be thrilled with excitement over it. Why won't they be happy with that if they don't want commitment nor being baby-trapped?
I heard of a guy that surprisingly reacted sad to that news. Yet, he was one of those anti-commitment guy. Why react badly then? He should've been happy.
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I thought most to all of them would be reacting with happiness over it, even celebrate it and consider themselves lucky.
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it's probably because relationships today aren't the same as relationships in the past where our grandparents or even our parents were each other's first love, first crush, first kiss, first sex partner etc and stayed together for many years till death do them apart.
today it's all about hookup culture and nobody wants to work on relationships anymore because eventually one person takes the other for granted. a man has to be a woman's unofficial bodyguard, her financial provider and supporter plus her entertainer if she were to ever get bored and in return she only promises sex twice a year and refuses to cook, clean or do anything else but will gladly do those for a man who cheats, abuses or beats her. in the case of men specifically the more effort he puts in, the less effort she puts in but the less effort he puts in, the more effort she puts in.
even without wanting kids, the majority of candidates on either side aren't attractive in the eyes of the other. men are either too short or too broke and women are either too fat or too promiscuous and therefore relationships can't be created in the first place.
That contradicts the belief that men aren't interest in commitment and kids. That would mean they would've wanted that if it were with the right woman and back the love people had in old times. So this means more men actually do want kids and wouldn't be jumping with excitement if told he's infertile for life. Just like that guy in my example. When he was given that news of never being able to get a woman pregnant ever, that was a sad moment for him.
men do want to have kids but only with the right woman. you'll hear a lot of virtue signaling going on from both sides who claim to never want kids until they meet the right person. granting the other partner a kid is the ultimate symbol of the relationship being unionized.
Reproduction is the natural source of happiness, happiness caused by emotions caused by neurotransmitters that evolved to cause behavior in humans, in this case reproduction.
yeah that guy in my example felt his choice got stolen from him and really didn't expect that news. He still wanted to be a normal, fertile man.
They are subconsciously want a baby, it's also why guys tend to prefer young and fertile girls.