Boyfriends and their sports?

[purple2468]

so I've been wiht my boyfriend for about 6 months and he is involved in many school sports like lacross and crosss country, I do my best to go to his games or stick by him when he's sad about loosing a race but his lacross season is starting and I don't know what to do to try and make time for the both of us, I wanted to go into softball witch is in the same season but I don't know if its better that I do a sport becasue our practices would end around the same time or that I should just keep by book open so that if he's free its easier to hang out with him. what should I do?

[Ghostwriter]

First off, the only way you should do a sport is if Y?O want to. It would be cool and he'd probably think it was sexy, but I've done sports my entire life. Its taken a lot of time from my relationships, so they usually try to support me (which is one of the best things you can do in a relationship...be supportive to each others' endeavors...so kudos for that) by working around my schedule. Just try to get things you need to get done so that way, when he's available, you are too. Or join baseball if you're the next douchey A-Rod.

[stubbsy]

Do your sport, so he begins to miss you as you miss him, don't make yourself easily available to him, or he could lose interest, you need to keep your relationship interesting and this means you doing things you like so you can talk to him about them to him and vice versa, being his constant fan will dry out and become a habit, not an excitement, so keep the excitement in the relationship by looking forward to seeing him after training etc, it only works this way, it fails otherwise , good luck,x

[Anonymous]

You should not plan your life around a guy. If you want to play softball, play.