My boyfriend has just started doing a close contact sport with girls, should I be worried?

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My boyfriend has just started doing Jiu-Jitsu. He only started his first week and he said he didn't know there were women involved, and it's a close contact sport. should I be worried?

We fought about it, I tried understanding and learning about the sport via articles, youtube etc to gain a different perceptive. I know he's really passionate about it and I'm happy he's happy but...

It made me feel even worse, the positions are incredibly intimate and sexual. Not comfortable with multiple women on top, wrapping their legs around him and being beneath him (literally) I almost feel violated and threatened.

He s never given me a reason to distrust me, he spoils me. He loves me too much or never enough, I don't know.

I'm a sensitive person and I can't get over this It's something I'm not willing to compromise on and I'm willing to break up our 3 year relationship over it.

am I overreacting?

All advice is appreciated.
My boyfriend has just started doing a close contact sport with girls, should I be worried?
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