Why do girls think it's OK to squeeze my muscles?

[Anonymous]

Basically I'm getting annoyed about this.

On a night out girks constantly feel my arms etc. I could be talking to a mate and then they would just come up and feel them. I don't like I as If I just approached a girl And started to touch her then she would be outraged!

How and why can girls get away with these double standards? I happens with other things to.

[eaeaea]

In a way it's kind of the way it's considered offensive for a skinny girl to say "You're too fat" to a heavy person but when the fat person says "you're so skinny" it's not considered offensive when it's the same sh*t! Anyway, it's irrelevant to your question but just popped into my head.

Yes it's not right and you should sue for sexual harassment. ;) I'm not kidding.

I guess it depends on what kid of person you come across with. My best friend for example is very touchy with male friends, always touching everything.. I however hardly every touch anyone. My ex-boyfriend even used to tell me put your hands on me.. because I would never touch him. That's funny. =D Do you like tattoos? Put one on your arm "Don't touch me".

[shapeshiftgirl]

I would never think it's okay to just walk up to some random guy and squeeze his muscles, lol. If I wasn't totally sober, then I might... but still. Just politely shrug the girls off of you and ask them not to touch you. If it really feels like they are violating you, forget being polite. Nobody has a right to invade others' personal space.

[sephora]

what the heck that is weird, tell those girls to f off lol.

Girls are not afraid to tell a guy when he is invading her personal space, so maybe guys should be more outspoken when it happens to them.

[danblackiechan]

He has every right to wear revealing clothes and he has every right to show off the body he worked hard for. It does NOT give others the right to violate him. I personally wouldn't be offended if someone squeezed my muscles, but I would take offense if they caressed my muscles because that would strike me as being more sensual and intimate.

[Anonymous]

It's like girls who wear low-cut blouses complaining about guys looking at their t*ts.

You built the muscles. You probably wear clothes which show them off.

Most straight men love the attention. If you don't, wear something less revealing.

[Asker]

Haha touch�. Maybe you're right lol

[Fiona83]

He's definitely right. So now stop complaining.

[danblackiechan]

He has every right to wear revealing clothes and he has every right to show off the body he worked hard for. It does NOT give others the right to violate him. Same with a girl. Wearing revealing clothes is not permission for harassment.

[Opinion Owner]

It was 11 months ago. Get over yourself.

[bungalowbill]

Tell them to back off, it'll embarrass them and put them in their place.

That's super weird though, maybe that's their way of hitting on you.

[Anonymous]

I'm sure if you just gained fat in place of those muscles, you wouldn't be so disturbed. Also, your arm, is way different than what you're thinking about touching sir. Just stop working out, and life shall be just grand. Eff the standards.

[rockingpianoman]

so if a girl has breast implants , all guys can touch her boobs ? she shouldn't have gotten those breastimplants if she didn't want it right ? what bullsh*t lol

[rockingpianoman]

the anonymous male poster puts you viewpoint in a better way ^^

[Asker]

So are you saying I shouldn't do something I enjoy and go to the gym (which has health benefits) because of other people do something I don't like and they have no right to do?

My point was that I I go and start striking a girls arm or tummy She would freak out and I would get arrested. Why is it seemingly acceptable the other way around?

[Opinion Owner]

haha yeah. If a girl has implants though, she is definitely asking for something of the sort, if not at the time, evenutally. Also, maybe you just are a person people like to touch. Some people just have that energy around them. Like he said, don't show them off as much. Tell them to back off, or just stop smiling.

[Opinion Owner]

Noooo dude, I am saying that you should use your last resort, MAN up and tell them how uncomfortable it is for you! Men can be molested too, it seems that you are being molested. And in society, men are considered stronger than women therefore considered more threatening while attempting something like a touch, that is where the double standard comes from, it goes deeper, but I won't get into that. Just like how flirty men are pimps and flirty women are hoes. That's life protect yourself.

[THE_Godfather]

I agree. Look don't touch.

I hate it too.

[DianaDDreamer]

hahaha What I can only look! =D

[THE_Godfather]

I usually never do this but I will make an exception & flex my pecks for you. (one time)

Linda hates when I do it. I tell her a lot of hard work went into being able to do that.