Will my husband not find me attractive if I can't lose the baby weight?

[Anonymous]

ok so my husband has been trying to convince me to start trying to have a baby but I'm worried about the weight after I have the baby, I'm afraid I won't be able to loose all the weight and I've always felt insecure about my weight in the past but now I'm finally at a good place with my weight and I'm happy with it, it's not that I used to be fat people would actually say that I was skinny and that I had a good body but I always felt bad about myself anyways now I'm afraid after I have the baby and I gain some pounds and can't loose them that my husband won't find me attractive anymore

[TOXiCLOV3]

I hope that your really not worried about this. He wants a baby because he loves you! I hope that you picked a good husband that would find you attractive no matter what, since he married you an all... What if you lost a foot from diabetes later in life? I hope he loves you then too.. And I am sure if he loves you and married you, and you love him... You have nothing to worry about!

[gonyr]

if he wants to put a baby in you so badly he's probably very attracted.

however, given your age, id say hold off for a bit.

your insecurities are your insecurities, not everyone elses. it has nothing to do with how they feel, its how you feel

[Asker]

oh I'm 27 I just put a random number when I signed up and didn't bother changing it, and I hope you're right :)

[Racez]

That could be. Men like their significant other to be attractive and pleasing to the eye.

You should be working hard to improve your shape, if ever you decided to have that baby.