Ladies say you thought you were a few pounds over weight

[Koldhearted]

Whether or not you really are or you're not, lets say you thought you were and you had a boyfriend that was average or really fit, would it bother you? What if he still weighed more than you? What if you weighed more than him?

I don't mean you thinking having the few extra pounds make you feel insecure/bothersome, but being with him/seen next to him making you feel insecure

[green22]

It would bother me. In fact this happened to me in a relationship a while ago. My weight was post-baby, and really I found the relationship suffered not because of my weight, but because of my partner's attitude to me. I felt insecure and unattractive and he supported those feelings in me by not being loving. I think no matter the reason for your girl's weight, if you love her, you will be supportive and kind. What holds a relationship together is not how we look, sickness, disability or ability - but it is how we behave toward each other - the feelings, the thoughts, the actions.

[Darkfairie17]

I dated a guy who was very skinny, I'm on the bigger size and am also naturally a larger frame. It was hard because yes I felt really odd being out with him. He was still taller than me, but I was broader and I felt like a man :P

It made it worse though because he would always pick at my weight and tell me I could stand to skip a few meals (which is really rude).

But if you like someone you should date them regardless. I'm lucky that I found a guy who doesn't care about my size.

[TexanCowgirl]

It would bother me and I'd do my best to weigh less than him. I don't have this problem cause I'm only like 105 pounds (LOL!) but if I were overweight, I wouldn't date anyone who was super fit/athletic. Do guys like that even ask overweight/obese girls out?

I once saw a really tiny guy with an obese girl and it was an odd sight, not gonna lie. (But it was just one time a few years back).

Its just this feeling I have where I think the man should be bigger than his girl.

[Koldhearted]

i said you think you're overweight

there's girls that are like 5'5, 130 lbs and think they need to lose weight

[TexanCowgirl]

Well if I thought I was overweight the answer still holds