Is he after something?

[Anonymous]

I have just quit working at a company with a guy whom I had a bit of innocent fun with. He would come up from behind and tickle me a few times a day. When I announced I resigned, he wasn't happy, saying he'd miss me. I too missed him, we had fun. So I decided I'd visit for coffee twice a week before I'd begin work. The first time he asked for my number in case I ever wanted to return. He said for me to contact him if I wasn't liking my new job, and I did. He messaged back for me to visit the following morning for a chat and hug. 10 minutes after I left he messaged me that he missed me already. I replied saying I missed him too and he said that it's good to know I like seeing you. He called me a day later to see how I was. One of the guys at my new work reckon he's trying to root me. It's been playing on my mind because he's a married man with two kids. I just can't imagine he would be interested in me...

[martyfellow]

It's pretty clear he isn't just horse-playing around with you. This is pretty bold behavior since no doubt there's a lot of gossip about the two of you at this company, and he is taking a risk his wife will hear about it. Askikng for yur number..I'm sure ppeople heard him do that.

I mean, already someone at the NEW company is gossiping about it! It must be a popular subject at the old job.

He must have something in mind to be going out of way so much to see you

[Racez]

It must be that you're someone whom he considers as a best friend, and doesn't want the idea of losing you. Great guy.

[zagor]

He's thinking, now I can do her on the side and my co-workers won't know and maybe rat me out to my wife.

Or he just likes you as a friend. But I would bet on #1.