Why do they say confidence matters when you know girls don't like you?

[Anonymous]

Seriously, maybe I'm a health freak. I will not deviate my diet or exercising for nobody. Especially for some girl. Girls don't want to be with me, they want somebody they can get sick with eating ice cream watching flicks. Somebody that will sit down and eat that pizza with. Every time I meet a girl and they find out that I really care about my health and that I will not cheat my diet ever, I get dismissed. Even all my friends say it. I can be confident, doesn't change the fact that women want to be with some one that is considered normal in today's society.

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I mentioned I will not deviate from the plan, I exclaimed especially for women. Why would I? If I do then I'm changing my self. I want to be myself, and changing will just make me not like myself. I wouldn't be happy if I have to change who I am, and what I choose to eat is being myself!

[loverlove123]

Okey confident always matter no matter what.People kill them selfs because they don't have confident and that is one stupid thing to do a normal person don't kill them self.The bad things that people say to you you need to learn how to ignore them. If a girl doesn't like you for you then they will never like you when you change,but if a girl like you for you it is true love.Now you just have to stop changing your body and just be you becuse no girl will like you if you are being somebody else that will be lieing.I permoise someday a girl will come for you and they will like you for you some one who think that you are handsome.

P.S if you don't have confident in you you might hand up killing yourself just trust your self.

eat when you are hungry,eat what you want unhealth.health food.both counts but remaber don't eat to much of eigther both.

[LovelySerene]

People think I'm weird because I don't eat chocolate, peanut butter, cookies, ice cream, Mexican food, pancakes...but I'm not a health freak, my stomach can't handle those foods.

And I can't exercise because of how my disabilities are, my doctor practically ordered me not to exercise

The thing is...people are going to think what they want, I'm sure you will find someone that will accept you for who you are, don't ever change

[Asker]

Thank you, this is BA

[LovelySerene]

Oh, thank you! :)

[Irinyes]

This question is a waste of time. You seem to be looking for a particular answer and ignoring the rest. In answer though, people say it as a default answer, when they have no idea or don't want to hurt your feelings. Truth is your too inflexible about your food so you need to find someone who is already similar or willing to change for you. (which I don't see why anybody would when your not willing to change.)

[kheserthorpe]

You'd be better off dating models or serious atheletes who also never cheat.

Most people like the looks of super health conscious people, but not the lifestyle. Most relationships focus on eating together and f***ing.

[Levin]

"Most relationships focus on eating together and f***ing." haha, there's a strange sort of truth to that.

[blackwaterhattie]

Are you a d!ck about your diet and what you will and will not eat? Because if you are, I wouldn't date you either, and it has nothing to do with your food choices and everything to do with a sh!t attitude. Are you coming across as holier-than-thou about your superior food and lifestyle choices? Maybe that's it. Like, there is a lot of stuff I can't/won't eat because of religious dietary restrictions- I keep kosher. I won't eat pork or shellfish myself, but also I don't care if other people eat it. I'm not all "I'M one of the CHOSEN PEOPLE, and you AREN'T- so you go on and eat that filthy flesh but don't eat it around ME lest you offend my Jewwy Sensibilities!" I mean if you are going to be an a-hole about chicks eating ice cream, then... yeah I bet it IS hard to find someone to date. Nobody wants to be judged. That's no fun.

[Asker]

You take things as I'm making fun of other people. I don't care what you do, and I don't judge, but that's how girls are. they want to be their with their hubby snuggling on the couch eating out of a carton of ben & jerrys, I'm sorry, but I couldn't do it. Once you find out what it does to you then you think twice about it. I've studied a lot, and I experimented a lot. Theirs just somethings I will not do any more.

[blackwaterhattie]

Well, huzzah for you, then. I sincerely hope you will find someone of whom you can approve and vice versa.

[Hamburgers]

Don't change yourself, just find a girl who is into fitness like you are. You would be pushing each other anyways, win-win.

[anonymousbeachgod]

i would never change my diet for a girl either I understand where you are coming from with this have you however I have never had a problem with girls breaking it off over what I eat maybe you just come off weird?

[saulwhite]

Beacuse they think you're a psyco, sorry it's true.

You have to meet a girl that is as strictly with her diet as you are.

[Anonymous]

It's okay to care about your diet. If you don't want to eat something then don't and plus many people care about their diets.I know some girls do,maybe you just need to find a girl who is just as much into healthy eating as you.

[QueenBeatris]

u said it,a health freak,its just as bad as a bible thumper..the errogance gets in the way,it is so annoying and a turn off,especially if you are not that muscular but walk around like you r.

[QueenBeatris]

and even then,its a turn off.. I have dated gym rats,thats exactly what they are ,they focua on nothing else and their minds lack exercise

[Asker]

I'm rarely in the gym, 2 or 3 times a month, but I do get my exercise daily, and I take it easy! Walking. One day a week I run. Intervals maybe 2 days, and weights maybe twice a week, but I'am more into my diet. That is the most important thing to me!

[QueenBeatris]

ok so why do you have to announce it? you sound like a walking twitter billboard. do it for yourself and stop cramming it down peoples throat,honestly nobody cares.Good you eat healthy,what do you want ...an award?

[Asker]

I'm just saying that when girls meet me and they find out that I don't eat pretty much none of the foods other people eat, they loose interest. Why does the way I eat turn off girls? Just because I rather eat some plants then bread, or a grape fruit over a cookie.

[QueenBeatris]

that's pretty lame

[Asker]

Why because I want to take care of myself? I kind of think you have no clue about pretty much anything. Before I started studying clinical nutrition and biology, I was studying physics, theirs a reason why I won't eat any of that stuff and the way I live like I do. I'm nourished, energetic, happy, and never sick, and my whole life force just feels amazing. Why do I need to give that up for a girl to like me?

[Lj238]

You sound really obsessed with eating perfectly so yeah that would get annoying to be around

[Asker]

I understand, but my health is not your priority, it's mine!

[Anonymous]

Being healthy is great but being obsessed with it just comes across as rigid and a turn off

[Asker]

I will never cheat my diet ever! P[people live in a dream world, they need to wake up. Don't think for a second that their isn't people out there that has a problem with your existence. Even though they don't know you or who you are or even who you will be or what you will do, they want you dead. One way they are doing this is by poisoning you through food!

[Opinion Owner]

See, you sound crazy af. This is what girls don't like. All that intensity like you're shouting at me, it makes you come off like that homeless guy standing on the corner with a sign saying "THE END IS NEAR"

[QueenBeatris]

you think you are immune to the poisons on this planet because you go to the gym(which is infested with peoples germs) or eat right? do you grow your own food? what's in the ground...pollution..you can only live as healthy as the planet you are on,so don't judge others...maybe your thinking is twisted because you are not getting the right nutrition or maybe you are just a little nuts.That doesn't sound too healthy

[Asker]

You live in a bubble, I'am studying to become a physician, and if you knew me, you would know that all my friends come to me for any advice. I would never cheat my diet, I love the foods I eat, They are all natural whole foods, and they taste amazing to me. Now matter how you want to say it, your life force would not be as good as mines if you don't take control. Yes their is nothing that I can do about the pollution and decrease in mineral rich soil. Things will never be the same, but I will

[Asker]

never subject myself to all those modified remedies. I'm sorry, but I see the truth, and I'm a chef myself. I would make all types food that you would instantly love, but they would be made with all whole foods rich in nutrients.

[Anonymous]

You're too health conscious. That would freak out anyone

[Anonymous]

Then find a girl that is more like you.

[Opinion Owner]

This is starting to sound like a trolling question.I'm going to go on the record and say who gives two craps about your diet.Why come on here asking for advice and then shoot down anyone with an opinion on why you may be alone for a very long time because of how rigid you are...which leads me to believe you are boring since you can't seem to speak about anything else other than your...diet.Get a life.Live a little...THEN maybe you will actually find a girl who finds you...tolerable.

[Asker]

Really? Your making fun of me when I'm trying to be honest and share feelings with you. I don't talk about my diet with others' that I don't know, or some in my circle that are just friends, but my real friends I do. Do you know how hard it is to tell some one that what they are eating is real poison. If rat poison tasted good would you eat it? Some of the package foods have rat poison in them, it's a whole different ball game when you know what they put in these foods and what it does in your

[Asker]

body. Maybe I'm being selfish, I really would like my spouse to be the same, because I know what we eat will inherit into our children!

[Opinion Owner]

I really don't care.You're just blabbering on and on and not listening to anyone.In fact your headlining questions and everything you are talking about makes no sense.I understand about what's in food blah,blah,.What you fail to understand is that no girl wants some juiced up hound breathing down their neck preaching about food all damn day.You could be eating healthy today and STILL develop pancriatic cancer and die young.So who gives two sh*ts about all of what you're saying.No girl is going

[Opinion Owner]

to want to tolerate you.I don't even KNOW you and I find you pretty annoying concerning all of this.So like I said,get a life.Life isn't all about a "diet".Eith your overall approach,it seems like you may be single for a while.

[Asker]

So why is it that you think I preach, was that in the question I asked? When I meet girls I don't really talk about diets or health, but they do notice when I turn down pretty much all the garbage that is offered to me, and then when they ask it's not like I could lie. I'm very strict with my diet. I know what poison is and I refuse to eat it!

[Opinion Owner]

Whatever,I've said what I had to say.You're. Just repeating yourself which is pretty lame.bu-bye.

[Asker]

You sound really mean, what you fail to understand is that you can never be as mean as me, I just don't do it because I don't like affecting people so negatively, but the way you sound I can tell I would put you in your place easy if I met you. And oh yes, you can still eat healthy and still involve your self by altering your physical form unnaturally, that is why people would still get pancreatic cancer. You go ahead and live a life with osteoporosis and Alzheimer's. My objective is to try to l

[Asker]

can

[Asker]

eat as natural as I can