It seems he is attracted to me, but he hasn't found a way to contact me. When we've been around each other, he seems to listen to what I say, laughs at my quirkiness, and makes such deep frequent and long eye contact with me often accompanied by a smile. Do guys wait for girls to seek them out, like add them on a social network first because I don't want to play the waiting game. I also don't want to seem desperate but I am more than sure we have strong chemistry with each other and I'd like to get to know him more.
I use to always try to make contact with the girls I was interested in. However, I kept getting rejected time and time again and my sister (has had lots of boyfriends) mentioned it may be because I seem too desperate. So then I started using the passive approach. I would show interest in a girl when I met her, but I would never ask for her number or add her on Facebook or suggest we meet up again unless she took the initiative. Then, one day at lunch, a friend of mine introduced me to a really cute friend of hers. She added me on Facebook not even an hour after we met and I knew she was interested. She's now my girlfriend.
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Guys who wait, masturbate...
i don't think so but you can try
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