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I've answered this before so I'll just copy paste the answer I gave another girl here. It's the same deal:
95% of guys are repulsed by them. No guy wants to be seen with the fat chick, they feel they loose cool points and look ridiculous. Like they can't do better. Are you fat? Lose weight, maybe I'm sounding harsh but we live in a world where we are judged 90% on looks and 10% on personality, ESPECIALLY at our age. It's possible though for fat men to seek fat women because they are easier to score, see both can't do better so they find each other like magnets. Same goes for guys who are on the loser/dorky side. Can't get a "hot girl" so they settle for the fat girl or dorky/loser girl. Of course it's also easier for fat guys to get pretty girls just because guys have it easier so that's a variable.
This changes when people get older and it's common to see fat women in their 40's and 50's getting some (finally) because really at that age everyone is deteriorating so who cares? Unless you live in Hollywood and can afford cosmetic surgery with Dr 90210 then you can continue being hot and sexy and dating other cosmetically enhanced hot sexy 40 year olds. Hell maybe a 25 year old will do you because the surgery is that amazing.
You know the saying 'Fat girls are grateful for it'.
Side note: All fat people! Get it through your heads, fat is not sexy, it's not attractive and it doesn't make people want you more. It's a turn off, take care of your bodies. I don't care what others may say to make you feel better or because that's what they want to convince themselves and the world of. Looks are #1 then comes everything else. I don't care how attractive your face may be or how smart you are, how outgoing you are, what a great personality you have. You're fat, lose it and stop wasting your life trying to get people to want and accept the fat. Not happening unless it's with some ugly fat person or dork. I'm sorry. It's true, sometimes to be kind you have to tell it like it is even if it's not what people want to hear. It's a reality.
It's also a proven fact. Ask people who've lost weight and they'll tell you they get treated differently now that they have a 'hot' body. More stares, more dates, more chivalry. Hell, even people from the same sex treat you better. It's one big superficial world and it doesn't stop till we get old. Accept it already people!
ABSOLUTELY! I'm not a guy but I'm in the same situation as you. I always felt that way. A guy who has a good heart and looks beyond physical and into personality are the GOOD guys. So never ever worry about the assholes.
Not near as much as if you'd cut some weight. You'll get some action, maybe, from:
a. Other fat guys who are in the same lonely boat as you
b. The rare any sized guy who has a fetish for overweight girls. You might not want this guy because he might be choosing you for your fat not for you.
c. The extremely rare any sized guy who actually ignores appearance but instead goes for personality. Like I said, EXTREMELY rare; looks count to almost everyone including me. Even to you and your big friends, right? But if you do find this guy, keep him. But to wait for him is likely a path to being alone for years if not forever.
Best advice, bite the bullet and hit the gym more. You play softball, so you're not foreign to working out (though, trust me, there's a lot more exercise out there than you'll ever get at baseball/softball practice. Softball is not aerobic enough. Don't hate on me; I've played/coached baseball, soccer, football and wrestling. Baseball is NOT about fitness its about skill) After about a month, the sore muscles go away, the fat starts falling off, you can still eat normally (not massively, but not starving either) and you'll soon get REAL attention from real hot guys that never used to look at you, and you'll be SO motivated to keep going to the gym then that your "problem" is fixed (because you fixed it, exercise girl! Good for you! ) But you do have to wade through that first month or two that feels awful and doesn't seem to have much of an effect.
Simple answer if the guys are into the bigger girls, then yes they do give the bigger girls the chance, but I suppose not many of these guys around. If you were thinner guaranteed your dating scene would be 180 degrees different than what it is now.
The perfect example was one of my friend who was also very big. As a big girl she had one date, and it was a guy that liked the bigger girls; the weird thing was that he wanted her to get bigger. Fortunately enough, at some point my friend went to the doctor for her regular checks, and she found out she was developing diabetes, and since she got very scared about that, she went on to lose a lot of weight. She went from having one date in years, to basically being asked out every week. Not only was she happy that she was on her way to being healthier, but also, she loved the new attention she was getting.
So yes, if you were thinner, you would be getting tons of more dates,and that's a fact. Bigger girls will always say, 'oh, guys will like you for who you are, and you must love who you are. '
But all I can tell you is that as you get older, you will also be more prone to diabetes and heart problems, so if you loved yourself, why would you let yourself be prone to these problems?
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I think they do. Its what is on the inside. The good guys see this, the bad guys dont. You just have to find the good ones and not the ones that will use you.
yes they do.. plenty of guys like 'em with sum 'junk in da trunk'
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