Bulky vs skinny guys (? for women)

[Anonymous]

ok I been losing weight recently and I've noticed I have a very large frame ,im like the definition of big boned, I come from germans,scots, and the irish.(some of bulkiest people in world) But even when I get to my ideal weight I'm still gonna be bulky

so he question is do you like skinny guys or bulky guys or do you even care?

[heartsonfire]

honestly, I don't like guys that are that big. I like guys that are natural. just be whatever God made you as haha. if that's giant, then fine. but guys who are huge from working out a TON or using steroids are discusting to me.

my boyfriend right now is skinny. not super skinny, but yeah... definetely skinny. It does kinda bother me that he probably weighs less than me... but whatever. no big deal. at least he's by far stronger than me haha and he's only 16, I'm sure he's got more growing to do =P

[Smilie-xo]

I prefer bulky guys to tell the truth. I guess maybe I feel safer? or something like that. =]

[audreymarie21]

there's not a specific body type that I'm into... every guy is different, but all guys look best when they are healthy, toned, and fit... so however your body looks with a good diet and regular exercise is perfect :)

i don't think it looks good when you try and make your body into a size that isn't normal for it. like guys that bulk up TOO much, or girls that become TOO thin.

[Reeses-pieces777]

i think it's relative to me. I dont' mind guys who are more muscular and I don't mind guys who are thinner. honestly though, I've only gone out/ dated guys who were thinner and I dont' know why this is, but it' sjust coincidence I guess.

i' m more attracted to someone who is a good person and cares abotu me. if you want to lose weight and become thinner, then do so as you please as long as you are doing it in a healthy way and talk to a doctor about it.

[sammyangel9991]

We don't want a scrawny guy but we don't want a fat guy either. Girls like healthy, toned guys. We like guys who are in shape.

If by bulky you mean big and untoned, no that is not attractive. If you mean substantial and toned, yes that is attractive.

If you are asking whether or not girls like fat guys vs. guys better, I guess skinny is better but neither of them are good.

[AnarchyBytchcraft]

Personally, I happen to love the large build, barrel chested types. I have a thing for broad shoulders. My fiance is Irish and Scottish, so he's a large powerful guy. It all depends on the girl, some prefer a scrawny guy and there are other like me, who prefer them more of a bigger build.

[muser]

Well, really skinny guys are kind of a turn-off for me. Might be the way they have bones and tendons popping out everywhere. At the same time, I don't really like monolithic statue-men either. I most like the sort where you can hug them and feel comfortable, not like you really have to stretch to reach all the way around, or when you can grab your shoulders. But if had to choose between one extreme or the other, I think I'd take bulky.

[FreckledFish]

I'm pretty muscular myself so as long as the guy is bigger than me and taller. But I mean if I were to meet the "man of my dreams" and he was a short skinny guy I'm not going to reject him.There's this guy at my school and he's what people would say is "a gentle giant", I think he's hot even though he's nerdy :D

[kaylaaxbabiee]

I cannot STAND to date any boy who weighs less than me, & I'm 125. I think every guy looks a lil' better with some meat on his bones, it shows of a VERY sexy masculine vibe :]

[Asker]

Not meat as in chub per se I'm saying like bulky(big,tall,wide,strong) kinda like a football lineman

i mean I still have fat on me (which I'm losing(yah!))

[kaylaaxbabiee]

I think both are sexy, but football lineman is GREAT. The security factor is a big thing; all girls wanna feel safe. Bigger is generally better.

[Asker]

Yeah but sometimes I think it freaks people out

i kinda look like a bouncer but I'm pretty shy for a big guy

[kaylaaxbabiee]

Lol, what's wrong with bouncers? They protect you real good right? ;]

[Asker]

Nothing but still...

[kaylaaxbabiee]

I know, I get what you're saying. I can speak from experience that a lot of girls would rather go bigger than smaller though.

[Anonymous]

I prefer bulky/muscular. Only thing a skinny guy can do for me is introduce me to his bigger friends lol

[bellybuttonlint]

At least say that without being anonymous!

[Opinion Owner]

Does it really matter? It's my opinion if you don't like it there are plenty of girls who like skinny guys so don't get your feelings hurt sweetie

[babezilla]

i like bigger. I don't want the guy to be skinnier than me. and he has to have some muscles :)

[Asker]

Mine not that toned but there definitely there

(im seriously built like a line man)

[20Questions]

Finally, a girl that is honest on this site. lol

[malindaisme]

As long as you are big from a larger frame and not a bunch of fat on a smaller frame I dig it. I am not into skinny guys. I am a 4'11'' and 110lbs, so I like to feel safe and protected by my man.

[Grizzles66]

The best thing is to work with what you have an be confident in yourself. Confidence will take you further than anything else..bulky or skinny or whatever...

[tyrantfuryre]

=)

[successfulskinnyguy]

I am living proof. She is right.

[Anonymous]

in the middle of skinny and bulky