Touching a woman's leg to realise that it's not that smooth?

[Anonymous]

Answers from anyone would b awesome..

girls, have u ever had ur guy or a guy touch ur leg when u haven't shaved/waxed/ whatever, for a little while? like a few days or a week? how do u feel when that happens? because its happened to me and i get SUPER embarrassed and i move his hand=/

guys…. he says he doesn't care, but deep down, do u? if its not as smooth as u expected do u feel grossed out by it or does it not bother u? I don't know i hav this weird thing bout how my legs feel, iv asked a qs bout it ages ago…

thanks=]

[XRabbitHeartX]

Nooo... don't move away his hand! That just draws way more attention to the fact that you aren't perfectly shaved. Which by the way , is not that big of a shame seeing as we are human after all. A little bit of fuzz should not make a guy who already likes you go running for the hills. I'm not promoting not shaving of course. I'm just saying that if it happens, it happens and it's nothing to feel embarrassed over. As for your question, I tend to shave regularly but there most certainly have been times when it's been a few days and no guy has ever complained about it or stopped talking to me because of it. For a girl to be completely smooth it would mean she'd have to shave every single day which is quite unrealistic in my opinion. I do not have time to go over my legs every day, double checking every little spot on my body. I think that's crazy anyway. I'm a effing human.

[Asker]

yeah i guess so- well put thanks=]

[washize]

I've had it happen plenty of times. I didn't give a fuck and neither did they. I can' t help it that I am human and hair grows on my body. Sometimes I don't have time to shave my self hairless, and the hair grows back. I don't look or feel like an Ape. It isn't that big of a deal or the end of the world. As an adult, I have bills to pay, finances to organize, and a life to plan. I don't have time to worry about how buttery smooth my legs are 24/7. During the winter time I barely shave anything besides my arms.

Unless a guy waxes his body hairless, he has no right to complain about the hair on my body. If he wants my body to be hairless, he can PAY to get me a full body waxing REGULARLY along with a spa treatment.

[Asker]

i love it!

[washize]

lol thank you!

[HandsomeRaj]

You are a touchy little girl there lol

hmm ok here goes
1. If she's someone who I'm already attracted to and better if in a relationship with (with an friends with benefits it would depend on the chemistry between us), I'd probably get more nuts about her probably because of the variation and which also translates into 'I like / love you while finding you beautiful in every form and way)
2. If she's an ONS again depends on the chemistry but 98/99% I'd be put off there
3. EoD it depends on who she is and whats the relationship between us :)

[bingobango]

I don't think it's that big of a deal. We're all human. And most of us don't look too great in the morning either, but what are we going to do? Put bags over out heads so our girlfriends/boyfriends can't see us until we're all freshened up? I think part of the nice thing about being in a relationship is being able to feel comfortable around someone when we don't feel like we're at our best.

[Asker]

i love that, thank u=]

[Raebies]

Hah, this always happens to my boyfriend! We'll just be sitting on the couch and he'll just randomly feel my leg only to look at me with a face like, "really?" It's pretty hilarious, but he doesn't really mind and I'm not worried about it. I used to get really embarrassed about it when we were first going out, though. Trust me, they don't care as long as it's not like ridiculously hairy.

[Asker]

lol thats funny.. i hope ur right

[CrazynKinky]

Fun fact guys don't care that much. Especially if they get laid. I don't care I used to be obsessed with shaving my legs daily or every other day but I started slacking completely. I went on a first date with a guy and it was summer so I wore shorts and I hadn't shaved my legs that week and I didn't even give it a second thought. Why be embarrassed by something that's natural. I shave my legs because it's uncomfortable for me I don't do it for guys

[IHateMeganFox]

I get a little self conscious when a guy touches my leg when I haven't shaved, I just tell them I hadn't shaved for a couple days and they don't care. And if they do they have never told me. If a guy finds it gross or is bothered by it I wouldn't care to be with him anyway. No man will be grossed out by a normal human reaction to something as simple as not shaving for a few days.

[Anonymous]

I never care. I've felt smooth legs, stubble legs, hairy legs.. that's not the point of the leg feel. The point is to feel the leg, and let her know you're feeling it, and let her know you know she's feeling it. It's an escalation of intimacy, a way of letting her know I see her as a sexual being, a sexy person.

[Asker]

what a legend lol…
but doesn't it affect how much u enjoy the feel of it, or nah?

[Opinion Owner]

No. It's investigative, not for my pleasure.

[Asker]

like the way u think=]

[Opinion Owner]

Well don't come down too hard on the kids 18-24 below, who think it's weird that women have hair. For most of their lives, they didn't have pubic hair themselves. :)

[thisGUYknows]

we don't care. trust me lol. they might be slightly shocked at first but its not going to matter after 2 seconds for 95% of guys. just because ur a little behind on ur shaving schedule doesn't mean u NEVER shave ur legs right? slightly hairy legs once or twice isn't a deal breaker. most mature guys realize that girls have WAY more to take care of when it comes to their bodies.

[plants123]

I don't shave my legs for my bf. I shave my legs when it becomes uncomfortable for me or it's shorts season. He says the same of his facial hair that it eventually "hurts" his face then he shaves. I don't get on his back about shaving vice versa. I do shave my armpits a lot more often than my legs. Any pit hair is nasty. :-(

[Anonymous]

Happened to me once, and I felt embarrassed but he made a joke about it. I had a bit of stubble on my legs, and all he did was say "Oh prickly," and he rubbed my leg, grinned at me and left his hand on my leg. I thought for sure that it would be a deal breaker and he would never talk to me again. But he called me the next day to ask me out on a date.

[Asker]

aw thats cute=] thanks for sharing=]

[BoobMan]

It's not great to be honest. It can feel like her leg is stabbing mine like it's a pin cushion! lol!

If it's your guy, I'm sure he'll see past it. It sounds like you normally keep things smooth which is nice. Just wax or shave and you'll both be able to enjoy it! :P

[Anonymous]

I don't like it because it's not feminine. It seems weird when I think about women having facial hair and hair on their arms and legs. But I wouldn't make a big deal out of it. A little hair on the legs won't make the difference in whether I like her or not.

[HYPATIAofALEXANDRIA]

You do realize, hair naturally grows on Women.

If hair on Women is not feminine, than Women are not naturally feminine, in which case its irrational of you to expect it.

You just dont like hairy bodies. nether do i. its got nothing to do with being a Women, or being feminine.. Women are naturally hairy- like men.

I prefer men shave their hair as well. most dont. thats life.

[Jamie23]

Lol I don't let my boyfriend touch my legs if I haven't shaved them. It's just how I am even though he could honestly care less. But I get embarrassed too when I don't remember lol.

[abundantlyrich]

Yes but I only have sparse hair on leg. Its like newborn baby hair. I never shave. Its not a problem for him.

[Asker]

hehe lucky you:)

[Anonymous]

He's saying he doesn't care in order to spare your feelings.

In truth, he does care, but he recognizes that it's not the end of the world.

[Asker]

yeh i thought so too…=/

[Stacyzee]

I wouldn't expect him to have a major reaction because we are human and grow hair just like men do.

[Eiffelgirl21]

my guy doesn't care. but, when it is smooth he makes a comment lol

[Justforfun1973]

Had this happen last night! It was not a deal breaker. As long as your not as hairy as a Bigfoot.

[Asker]

haha ok thats good to hear:)

[ThisAndThat]

It wouldn't bother me what so ever. I would probably like it actually lol.

[Asker]

really? what about it would u like?

[Jamie23]

Really? Why is that? Lol.

[ThisAndThat]

I guess because I'd get to see her as she is as she really is uninterrupted so to speak, at least once. I'm the type of guy who loves to see a girls hair messed up when she first wakes up. I'm not advocating quit shaving legs. But on the other hand if I see her with unshaved legs I'm just fine with it. For the rest of her, I love a girls skin naturally and with no tats for sure naturally as she is and just about anything about them you could put your finger on.

[Asker]

beautiful:)

[Tequilashot]

No one wants to do it, but after it's done it looks nice and feels so nice.

[SkyrimAddict]

I would not really care because I would just be happy to be touching a women's leg.

[SaltandVinegar]

I dont care as long as its just a little bit