Why would a guy have a crush on me if we have nothing in common (different values and goals, different hobbies)? How do you deal with such a crush?

[Orntnt]

How do you deal if you like a person who you don’t actually have much in common with

[Shiprex]

There is something he sees in you that is more than what he enjoys in his own time. Having the same hobbies and interests means you're the same as each other in different bodies and is a creepy kind of thing to expect in a partner. Similar interests and values aren't necessarily identical and as long as they are able to have an open mind, people can develop attraction and attachment with each other through growth with each other.

[Orntnt]

Thank you. You sound way more open minded than most. I like what you said especially about the creepy thing lol

[Shiprex]

The identikit couple can be a workable arrangement if you're both that way but it's like when you both wear the same clothes to gatherings and act in similar ways that may come across as weird to others or if you're both chilled out types who are into the same stuff then it doesn't make you exactly the same. It's important I think, for some people to want to learn from another and broaden their horizons.

[joehypo1]

He must find you very attractive , this girl in my 1st grade class I had a crush on her older sister and I ended up moving out of state a few years later and about 5 years ago I getba friend request from her so I accepted and there was a picture of her and her sister and I still have that crush I never knew her but she has this look about her that drives me crazy still its weird

[Nikki1989]

Crushes are for teenagers and not something I would ever take seriously.

[Potteplante]

Deal with them like I deal with everyone else. 🤷‍♀️

[AI Opinion]

Love can sometimes be surprising and mysterious 🎭. It's possible for someone to find you intriguing for qualities beyond shared interests, like your personality or the way you carry yourself. If you're interested too, embrace the differences as a chance to learn from each other. Explore each other’s interests and see how you both feel. It can be rewarding to step out of your comfort zone, just like trying a new game or hobby. If you're not interested, it's okay to gently express your feelings to keep things clear. 😊❤️

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

He’s a man. He’s shallow. He liked you bc you’re pretty and then mentally implants his ideal personality into the mental image of you he has in his head.

[WhitneySnow]

Do you like him back?

[Orntnt]

In love with him

[WhitneySnow]

Does he have a crush on you?

[WhitneySnow]

What do you find attractive about him?

[Orntnt]

I think so. Sometimes he seems to want my approval and gets nervous around me lol. But anyway he’s really handsome and we both connect emotional.

[WhitneySnow]

You should talk to him. Even if you don’t have a lot in common you can still make a great couple.

[Orntnt]

Thank you that’s so nice of you to say I hope it’s true. What do I talk to him about? I’m kinda awkward but I’m ready to start being open with him a bit more like I want to tell him he’s so handsome. I don't know if that would scare him.

[WhitneySnow]

I’m not sure. Think of something normal you guys share in common, like work or school, and talk about that. Then, if it seems like he really likes you, then you tell him you think he’s really handsome.

[Orntnt]

He’s asked about my life. He’s really outgoing so he’s more good at talking than me. I’ve complimented his looks before and he did to me too. Thanks.

[Fireguy17]

do you have boobs?
if so, there is your answer.